I went to see the most popular surgeon in Dallas and hated him. He felt like a used car salesman to me. He was not caring or even took time to talk with me about my options, he just told me that I had to have the surgery and if I didn't start an Atkins like plan that day he would not see me again. I too am self pay and I was not about to settle for this guy just because he is on every billboard in town. I prayed about it and kept searching. I found a wonderful doctor who actually performs more surgeries per year than the other doctor. He also told me to lose about 20-40 pounds before the surgery but gave me some great suggestions on how to do it. I have lost 10 pounds this past week and still have 7 weeks till surgery. I feel confiedent that I have found the right surgeon after months of searching. There is someone better out there, just keep looking and don't be discouraged.