Thank you all for the advice and support. I think he is on the fence for many reasons. I know we have spent money on lots of failed attempts to lose the weight, and nothing I have ever tried before has worked. But that is the reason I want to go through with the surgery. My feelings are in this 100% and I will make it work. I want to finally lose and be able to chase my kids, go for walks, and just enjoy a life without feeling fat!!
I have asked him to watch a taped seminar of my doctor's information...he hasn't taken the time to do that yet. Weight loss has been a difficult subject in our marriage for years. I just think I will have to prove it to him and kick this into high gear!