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About Malyss
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- Birthday 04/21/1976
About Me
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Female
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Zombies, steampunk, crafting, Nerf & water gun steampunk modifications, sewing, reading, etc.
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Customer Care Expert
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Bridgeton
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NJ
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08302
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Today is the 1-year anniversary of my surgery. I am glad that I made the decision. I had a great surgeon, my surgery went well and I have had reasonably good results. So far, I have lost approximately 134lbs. Within a week of my surgery, I was able to go off of my high blood pressure medicine. My blood pressure is now normal. Overall, I really feel so much better than I did a year ago today.
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How soon did you go back to work?
Malyss replied to Kennedy310's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I have my surgery on 02/22/12 and was out for 2 weeks before returning to my office job. I was maybe a little slower than I was before the surgery and had lifting limitations, but I was fine. After a few weeks, maybe a month or so, my energy level was back up to a good point. -
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My Sleeve The Good The Bad The Ugly!
Malyss replied to BigBootyQT's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
My surgery was completed on 2/22/12, so I am about 8 months out. I had buyer's remorse for the first day or two, but things got better. The good: I have not had any complications. Within the first week, I was able to cease taking my high blood pressure medicine. I gradually gained more energy. So far, I have lost 125lbs, which includes the 21 or so pounds lost in preparation for the surgery. I have scoliosis, and reducing my weight has helped tremendously to reduce my aches and pains. I feel great. I have more energy. I can walk and walk and walk before getting tired. I have discovered bones that I never "knew" that I had. My collar bones are more apparent and even my temples have more definition. I have gone from a size 26/28 to a size 18. I can now buy XL shirts and they fit nicely. The bad: I am not a fan of the bagginess, but I hope that I will see some natural resolution to this. My inner thighs look like deflated balloons. Bowel movements can be challenging. I cannot always drink enough Water, which was a problem at times when my husband and I were out for long walks during the summer. I react violently to sugar. Granted, why would I even want one of the things that helped to contribute to my obesity, but who doesn't occasionally want a taste of a dessert? I have found that if I have sugar, I will tend to have massive mood swings. I may even become slightly lightheaded. I went overboard once and had a milkshake. An hour or so afterwards, I had a bad bout of diarrhea. At least I know now what I can do if I ever get really stopped up. Overall: Having the surgery has been a life changing experience. I feel so different and so much healthier. I am about 62lbs away from my prescribed goal and I definitely feel as though I am going to make it this time. -
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Guilt Over "damaging" A Perfectly Good Body Part...
Malyss replied to lucky8mb1's topic in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums
I get what you're saying. It did seem a little odd to radically change a properly functioning organ. It seemed scary at first especially when some of the complications to the surgery can be so dire. It definitely seemed a bit odd, but I am about 8 months out from my surgery and I am glad that I did it. The capacity of my old stomach was just too big. The downsizing has helped dramatically. -
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Best of luck with your journey. I am finally getting around to seeing my pulmonary doctor later this month. I am hoping to ditch my CPAP. I definitely needed it, but I am so sick of it now. I am hoping that after losing about 120lbs, that I can ditch the darned thing.
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kamrie37 reacted to a post in a topic: Tail Bone Pain
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YES! I definitely have this issue from time to time. It almost feels as though I go through adjustment periods after enough losses have occurred. There have been times when even the comfiest of seats have not been enough to prevent me from feeling discomfort. There have been some killer car rides. Right now, I think that I have adjusted to the current array of padding on my posterior. At times, I wonder, "how can thin people stand sitting down?" But I guess that they're just used to it and it is different for those of us who are adjusting to having less padding. My mother-in-law is quite thin and has said that she has never had any pain. So, I really think that it is a matter of my body adjusting to the changes that it is experiencing. It will hopefully get better and better over time!
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ProudGrammy reacted to a post in a topic: 6Months Out
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I am just a little over 6 months past my surgery date of 02/22/12 and I feel as though I am doing quite well. I started at 357lbs and am now down to about 242 lbs. Within the first week, I was off of my high blood pressure medicine. I have gone from a size 26 down to a size 18/20 at the moment. I have more energy and am capable of much more now. Knock on wood, I have not had any complications. My sleeve has been a wonderful addition to my life so far. I really feel quite glad that I went through with it.
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Last Lane Bryant Purchase!
Malyss replied to Sannah's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Leaving Lane Bryant is a big milestone. I have gotten down to an XL shirt and size 18 pants and have been very excited to find that I can shop in other stores in the regular sections. Before my surgery, I was wearing size 26 clothes. I think that I lost the weight just in time! The Lane Bryant at my mall recently closed and is being remodeled into a Red Robin (burger joint). -
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Spicy Foods<<<I Miss U!
Malyss replied to beautifuldiva's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I am not 100% sure about the noodles. Granted, pho was my first restaurant food after I had my sleeve. About 4 days after my surgery when I was on the full liquid stage, I forced my husband to take me to one of our Vietnamese restaurants so that I could have some pho broth while he ate the rest of the Soup. I have had pho a couple of times since then, but I have concentrated on the broth and the beef first and have just had a little of the noodles (well chewed). -
Spicy Foods<<<I Miss U!
Malyss replied to beautifuldiva's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
Bah, chili garlic sauce is great stuff. Then again, I have developed a taste for Vietnamese food and my love of this stuff started at my favorite Vietnamese restaurants. It goes great with pho. -
Spicy Foods<<<I Miss U!
Malyss replied to beautifuldiva's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I was a "bad" girl and starting hitting the chili garlic sauce while in my pureed stage. I was eating cottage cheese and it just needed a dash of chili garlic to make it more interesting. I am about 3 months out and I still use my Steve & Ed's Louisiana Hot Sauce, Sriracha, chili garlic sauce and such without any issues. Granted, I am not trying to "burn" a hole in my stomach or anything. I have just been adding enough spicy stuff to give my food flavor. -
Had My Gastric Sleeve On 03/19/12
Malyss replied to amanda0679's topic in POST-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
I had mine back on 03/22/12 and I have to agree about the change in energy level. I am much livelier than ever. I do not have any good recipes to share. I am still keeping things kind of simple. I will often have some steamed fish (tilapia or flounder, sometimes salmon) for dinner with some steamed broccoli or spinach. -
Weight Loss Surgery Stigma
Malyss replied to StrangelyNormal's topic in PRE-Operation Weight Loss Surgery Q&A
People are nuts to really think that this is the easy way out. This is a tool that I needed and it is helping me tremendously. I know how to diet, I do have willpower, but I just needed something that would reduce my hunger and my capacity to eat.