u guys please help!i have been so excited to finally start my weight loss journey only to be discourged by family and friends everyone is telling me that if i vet the lap band im gowing to have health problems and that they know so many people who have died and just so many other negetive things im so confused bit at the same time my heart is telling me that i have made the right decision about gowing ahead with this surgerey im so bummed out,please i need some advice on what you guys think