My cousin and i have always been fat and fabulous together. Now that i have been sleeved she has become such a hater. Important only 2weeks in and have lost only 20lbs and she has started already. I finally had to lean on her and let her know that this was my decision and i don't care what her or anybody else thinks. I don't. Have to explain myself to anyone. I think she got the pic and apologized to me for being overly concerned as she called it.