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Dear liberty s you have been very inspirational to me on this site - often I just browse through esp when feeling a bit low and I always find your words very wise - so thankyou for that! I feel like I was probably tightened too much - but as it took so long and a flipped port before I got a fill I am loathe to have a defill - also am with The Hospital Group who have been rubbish! However my question is why oh why does all the junk (sweets chocs & biscuits) go down so easily when good wholesome food - like this omlete I'm trying to savour for breakfast - why does that all get clogged up :-(` annie

I don't want to burst anyone's bubble of enthusiasm - but being banded is bloomin hard work, it certainly isn't a magic tool :-(

how did you qualify for a freebie?

The hospital group is a complete waste of time - I've had no contact with them - it's impossible to get any help from them - I so wish i went with another provider.

Hi Mrs D do you have details of Derby or Stoke groups? Thankyou annie

My sister was approved for nhs banding due to her diabetes - however she has been waiting for the op for over a year and has had to jump through hoops - and still no date set! If you pay for it these companies arn't too bothered about the BMI mine was about 38 and I weighed same as you and I certainly wasn't going to gain weight simply to get the op which I'm paying for! Whatever you do - DO NOT GO THROUGH THE HOSPITAL GROUP!! good luck

hi - I haven't posted for a while as I was very disillusioned with my lack of progress with the band which was fitted beginning of march 07. Then I had a flipped port which required a 2nd surgery which was painful. Now 6 months since original surgery - I have just had my first fill and it took ages under xray as the port had flipped again!! anywya the dr fertled around and then gave me a good shot 6.8ml! Well I must admit it hasn't been the magic pill I was hoping for or the miraculous weight loss I wanted (1 stone) however I have joined a slimming world group and that has helped a lot. I think its just going to be slow and steady (please God!). keep posting as these threads (specially UK) are really helpful. annie

BUPA sounds like the best way to go - you have unlimited fills - apparently, or BMI group.. whatever you do - don't go through the hospital group!!

hi - I am also with hospital group - absolute waste of time - i was given a support number by a lovely lady when i first joined up - and he#ave tried contacting her loads of time - to no avail. when i call the hospital group head office everything takes so long or they just forget! My band was fitted march and I started off well, but with no restriction i just went back to my old ways and worse (disillusion set in) Eventually i got a fill date in sheffield, but when i turned up (100 m round trip) they discovered the port was flipped - so I have just come back from another op to reposition it, (that took about 6 weeks to organise) now i have to wait again for a fill.......... aaagghhh .. i daren't think of the money, but just pray when i eventually get the 'fill' things will speed up. In meantime i have joined slimming world and am doing quite well!!

re the liver thing - what i wanted to ask when they requested I shrink my liver, is how do they know its been shrunk (having not seen it to begin with>>> my pre op diet was rubbish - I was just trying to educate myself into eating 3 times a day, instead of the terrible 'grazing' !

Oh god that sounds so negative - sorry bout that

Please let us be happy and slim!! I know weight shouldn't make any difference and I am constantly chastising my kids at school and my own children for making assumptions on a person simply from the way they look... but honestly I feel so much more confident when I'm less heavy, and like I can get on with life. This op has been drastic for me (like everyone on here) and I'm so fearful that it'll just end up being another failure for me.

Hi suzanne how are you getting along? still in the land of size 16? thats's still a way off for me, but just taking a stone off I feel much healthier