Back~To~Amy

I'm guessing that the people who made the "just diet" comment have never had real weight issues. Those of us who have had or currently have totally understand your struggle. It's great you have the support of your husband. If you decide to do this, do it! Don't let other's opinions stop you if it is really what you want. Good luck to you in your decision!

Hi there! We must live close. I'm attending his seminar next Tuesday at 6:30 pm at Baylor Plano. Of all the commercials running in our area, I was always drawn to his. Plus, after reading his site, I like the fact that follow up visits and fills for LIFE are FREE. Most places only give you a year. I hope I feel like he is my doctor after the seminar. Are you going to the next seminar? I'd love to meet you if you are.

Thanks Denise. The topic you speak of is one of the reasons I'm looking into the doctor I am. All office visitis and fills are free for life. That is a huge benefit to me as I haven't found anyone else who offers that. It's usally just the first year like you said.

Thanks for the suggestions to check out Dr. Ortiz. While I'm not opposed to having surgery in Mexico, I am opposed to being so far away from my doctor. For me, I just cannot let go of that feeling. I wish I could though, because it is so much cheaper. And, Dr. Oritz is on the California side of Mexico, correct? Over the long run, I think I'd end up spending more just to travel to see him. I just need to come to grips with depleting my savings and financing some and all this will be possible! To tell you the truth, the thought of not having to jump through the hoops of an insurance company to get their approval sounds like the big advantage of cash pay and it is sounding more and more appealing!

I've calmed down a bit since the intial post which I made right after my talk with the insurance company when my emotions were more raw. I still have hope. If I pretty much empty my savings, I can finance the rest and be able to afford those monthly payments. It just scares me to empty out my savings. I keep telling myself it is worth it, I am worth it, but it is hard to do. I'm going to go to a seminar on Tuesday and will proceed from there. I have time to decide and make my decision. I'm mostly scared to put out that much money and be without a back up in savings! Thanks to everyone who responded and gave me advice. I really appreciate the support here!

Well, Angela called me from the bariatrics line but won't give me coverage. She said I have to look at the Blue Care Centers list she is mailing me, pick a surgeon who works out of one of those facilites, go to a seminar, submit proof to her then she will mail me the benefits. I tried to ask her what my benefits would be because I will use an approved facility. She said "I'm not telling you that. You have to go through the process and then they will be mailed to you". It's a waste of my time to go to a seminar if I don't have good coverage! Plus, it will get my hopes up for nothing! Ugh! I hate their procedures!!

Aaww Rae, I'm sorry you are going through such a rough times. I'm sending virtual hugs your way. It sounds like you really need them. I haven't had surgery yet, but I did lose 75 pounds years ago only to regain double it so I know the emotional struggle you are going through with food. Also, I quit smoking too over 6 years ago and remember being so depressed that I had "lost my best friend". How sick is that? It's really is all part of the process of the journey. I had the same kind of emotions about food and about cigarettes and will go through it with food again at some point. What you are experiencing is normal and it will pass. Hang in there. Learning how to have a normal relationship with food isn't easy. Congrats on the weight you lost! Take Care!

Thanks Steph and Jen. You both make such true statements. I haven't given up yet. I just hope if I go forward, the doctor will have more than just verbal approval.

Actually, the call was recorded and I have the reference number so the call can be easily found and listened to. The problem is before a rep comes on the line there is a recording that says " this is not a guarantee of payment". The rep I talked to today did say she will have the supervisor over my account listen to it, but I don't think it will matter with that disclaimer.

Thanks Steph. I actually left Angie a message earlier and am waiting for her to call back. I started googling that center for excellence stuff and it looked like it is only hospitals. My potentional surgeon uses an outpatient surgery center so I called customer service back to see if they had referred me to the right place. Somehow during that call my benefits came up. I'm glad yours is covered at 80/20. However, I think that has to do with your employer and not the insurance company itself. Employers have a lot of say so on the coverage. Anyway, the girl with Customer Service was super nice and is going to get with the lady who manages my companies plan and get clarification. I will discuss with Angela too when she calls back. Thanks for the advice.

Oops! Double post.

I'd like any food lists too. My email is amyh@tx.rr.com. Thanks!

Thanks Tahne!

Hi all. I am considering WLS. Initially, I was all the way Lap Band. However, I read websites that seem to give discouraging success rates. They say things like 30 to 40 percent weight loss after 1 year and 60 percent after 3 to 5 years. Those may not be exact but they are similar to what they say. That got me thinking about the gastric sleeve which touts higher statistics. The thought of having a lot of my stomach cut out is sickening though. Anyone have any thoughts on the LB statistics and/or words of encouragement to convince me LB is the way to go? I have my consultation next Tuesday. Thanks!

Wow! Thanks for all the support and information. Everyone is making me feel confident in my original decision of LB surgery.

I'm Amy and it would be great to have a local support group. Please add me to the list. My email address is amyh@tx.rr.com.

Oops! Weight, not wright.

Congrats on your wright loss SageTracey. That is awesome!

I'm in Coppell and am just starting to look into this. I'd love to be part of the group.

Thanks bhursey and congrats on your awesome success! You inspire me. I have about 150ish to lose. Your response pretty much convinced me that LB is the way to go. I like the permanent feeling of this and being able to "start over" if need be.....not that I'm planning on that. But, hey, you never know.

Thanks Steph. I'm okay with the extra visits to the doctor. You said something that made me think of a question. I hear that some regain lost weight. Say years down the road you start gaining weight, can you go back in for a fill to help with appetite control? The office I'm going to offers lifetime fills for free. If this is the case, I see huge advantages to this procedure.