I told my hubby, sister, parents, and best friend (who had bypass surgery) a few years ago. My sister and parents were okay with it. Hubby and bestie don't like it, but are being supportive.
I could have written your post word for word (except that I am nearly 40). I go back and forth in my mind daily as to whether or not this is the right decision for me. And I still don't know. :sigh: