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So I'm a month out tomorrow I've lost 34 pounds everyone is say how good I look and you've lost a lot of weight and there saying it like if there in shock and its like really cause I don't see it then they look at me like how can you not see it I don't kno .. The only way I see my weight loss if I have my son take a pic but looking in the mirror it's like I don't kno my clothes are to big I have to pair of pants I can fit now.. In total I've lost 42 I'm 5'8 so the more I lost I look smaller then what my actual weight is so I've been told before surgery .. I just wonder when did you guys feel like you really seen your weightloss ? Don't get me wrong I kno I've lost weight cause of the clothes and scale and I'm very great ful for what has been accomplished

Thank you

They shouldn't take it so serious I mean

It's okay if you don't wanna share if you kno your not any of those things that where said get over it .. It was not pacifically for u

I think ppl are making it personal its not about them we are having a general convo they should take things so serious

How do you post pics I'm on an iPhone ?

That's cause everyone's hungry lol heavier ppl are must happier cause there full

That's pretty strict .. But it varies

Hope to hear from u soon good luck

I say your young the relationship you had probably was premature I say take your time be friends enjoy his company see where it goes I'm not against you trying again being that you guys are young at that age typically guys don't kno what they want just have fun and see where it takes you cause once u lose weight guys will be all over you keep your options open

Wait to they give u that medicine that help you relax You won't care what they do to you and if you think it's a chance they won't give it to u ask for it

Alone you made a choice for you and once it happen they will come around it take ppl to get use to the idea and once you have it takes time for them to except it .. It will get better dont give all your energy into it we are all here for you

Thank I tried the squash amazing .. You have really made my day

I had someone say this to me ..I told them how much I weight pre surgery eyes was wide open in shock cause I never looked I big as I was then They went on to say but you've lost weight in the pass I'm like and yeah I don't have a problem w losing weight I have a problem w keeping it off oh and some where in that convo she manage to tell me oh I'm thinking about doing it .. Wow really ? I just walked away we have no farther contact I don't need that in my life I still tell be if asked and I feel there asking for the benefit of maybe seeking help

I'm two days from a Month out I stop the Protein shakes last week I try my very best I get sick I can't drink them do u think being this early out I can get enough protein from eating this has been a fear of mind and try to explain to my nut but all she does is give me recipes to try but the problem I have us that nasty sweet taste all her recipes are for ppl who like sweets I never did what did you do early on to get the protein in ?

Hott momma .. You look amazing

I think you be good by summer as long as your surgery is textbook ..no real complication you can pull it off

I'm praying that it goes easy for you