bobby_hamrick

Thanks, I could and should have lost more but my food intake has increased. I must have stretcehed out my small pouch I guess. It will go back though. I'm on the fourth fill for a long while now and I am afraid to get another one.

I been gone too long! It was a few days for us! Thats usual though unfortunately! No other problems. I had major shoulder pains with the gas though first couple days

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Well things have settled a little and I have some better understanding but Amy is still not home. She comes when I'm off work which is 15 days a month. We are seeking counseling as a family. Its the best I could muster. I believe there are many issues here and it is not my wife thats at the bottom of it all.. We are getting by and there are changes but I'll let you know. My daughter knows I am loyal to her and will always be! I really appreciate everyon jumping in and lending the thoughts and support. This thing sent me tumbling for a couple weeks and I've got myself back together now I hope. Bobby

This is cool and better so far. Where did view recent post since last visit go?

You know I have posted many time here but I have found a local support group. But this my first source of info. This isnt about losing weight or the band. I just would like to have an opinion or a vent I guess. My daughter has left home yes she is 17 yrs old. Always on the honer roll and we are close. She says she can not stand my wife of 5 yrs. And I have issues too. I'm sayin that I have taken the back seat so many times for my kid and I know thats part of it but I have done the band and I have changed my life. I run like 5 miles at least 3 times a week and I'm good. I'm 35 feel great but my wife is like there is no reason to have relationship with y kid. Sorry that dont work for me. I feel good as I have had numerous offers from women since. I have found that body I was looking for. My wife says its all because of the band. No the band didnt build this body. I have taken control of this body and this is a tool. So I have come to the conclusion that she has to go/ and I hate that but my kid and me are close and she says you dony see what she does to you she is holding you back. I am a hard gainer meaning I've worked for what I have. I make a great salary yeah me and I did education later. So I wonder why my kid is cornering me with this. More or less I'm very lonely and thinking of excepting a job out of state just to leave it alll/ 60000 a year plus a moving and salary bonus why not huh ? Just venting Bye

I was a little more than tipsy when i posted this . Amy my daughter is with my brother and is still very safe and we see and talk to each other every day. She is finishing high school and plans to be a pediatrician. Lets hope. We have always been close because I was mom and dad mostly. I got her at 1 year old and have had her ever since. Her real mom doesnt keep in touch. I hate it and I will try to get around it but it looks as though my wife feels this was a solution to the problem, Amy leaving. If thats the case I'll be looking for an apartment I guess. I dont run away from problems so I be here for my kid instead of taking another job...I'll let you all know how this turns out and thanks again for the emotional support..

There isn't many men around here but I'm dropping and can use threads. I'm at 38/30 pants and xl or xxl by some brands in shirts. I have 40/30 and some 42/30 I think left. I've given a lot away at work. Thanks for the help in advance..

Once again the whole staff at weight management was perfect for me. The operation everything went great. I know several others as well that feel the same. I'd say you are lucky and have one of the best teams around working with you...

If thats not incentive I dont know what is, you look marvelous!

definately wait...No rush here. Have fun and dont have to worry til you return....fills can be tricky and yes you could be in a bad place..

I've attempted a exchange thread before. I think its a great idea. I'm excepting and paying shipping on any nice 38/30 mens clothes....Hand me downs no problems..I'll do the same when I am done with the 38's..I came from 44 and have given the rest or most of them to people at work....let me know..

I was in the gym a few weeks post op. No real problems except abs. No ab work it hurt and ofcourse the flipaty flop of the old belly!! I enjoy exercising and am a regular now. Enjoy and watch the lbs drop!

Hey I have experienced the same thing as of recent and past. I have been banded since 08/03 and I have dropped 50 lbs. I have added lots of muscle yet I have had many intervals of struggle. I am in one now as I was @226 then bam 230-235 range for two weeks. I can identify the problems cause hey we put the cals in right? Like you I'm like I feel pre band. Here is a thought. We couldnt be like before or we would steady gain back weight. I have intervals. 5 will go and stay the n come back but then 6 goes and 5 returns! I won a lb. Its a yo yo sometimes. Frustrations yeah I work out like mad.. This body is fighting to retain its set pt of fat and weight. I inherited that I believe. I will prevail and you will too. Deep breath and reset yourself to the beginning rules that got you this far.

confusious say "HUNG CHOW IS A B___CH!" bANDSTER HUMOR

I couldn't have asked for a better experience the whole way/ he was a pioneer in this area and you are in good hands...

I'll try to give some input. first of all before banding way before like 94' i was in great shape and fit. in 04' when banded a slob. unfit. when i started it was hard but a litlle adds up and be consistant. start with the end in mind is my secret. i see where i'm going and what i'll look like. I went from 100 yards to 5 miles now in a year. its part of life now and the stress release and emotional release is worth it. I run 3 miles and walk two now which happens at least 3 times a week. keeps me positive. If I can get this done the rest is easy you know.... I have the edge physically too. Energy level for daily demands is not a problem anymore and I usually exceed the other people around me. Its great and I wouldnt change a thing. Picture yourself when you are done! The Band and a great exercise program? The fat aint got a chance!

I see that you got the fills very quickly. I had to wait 6-8 weeks and 4 weeks in between. It takes time so be patient this is not a magic bullet. This is a tool. You will get to where you feel full with little food and stay that way a while. I am a slow loser. 276-226 its been a year. 50 lbs works for me. 1/2 lb or 1 lb average as it has held true overall works in the long run and spares the skin flop. Frustration and impatience was my middle name. Now I'm me. I'm not sweatin that scale everyday. I exercise regulay and eat what I have became accustome to eating which is the same as before mostly except a lot less. I still have to diet. I have to watch what i eat. I can't eat icecream and pies to lose weight. Band or no band. You made a decision to change at all cost and now you have the tool to do it. Good luck.

The folks here can do anything. Dr. Ponce's team . Hamiltonhealth.com I believe then weight management. Great people all the way through. Tellem little Bob sent ya!LOL

well you have picked the right place to be. These wonderful people have put my mind to rest many days. Heal and follow instructions. A mistake now could ruin all your efforts. Follow the diet to the letter. Its hard and you'll be hungry very hungry. Its important for the band to seat as I call it. I would do it again in a minute congrats...

Be very weary of liquis calories. High calorie meal replacement will hold the fat. Eggs are great yet i couldn't boiled eggs for some reason and still sometimes have a problem with those and cabbage(slaw). We are all different. Depends on time of day for me too. Supper I can eat anything with care. Breakfast slow and easy..

Hey I had a real problem with being in a vehicle the first couple days. Made me sick. The gas was rough in the shoulder area and I was out in a day. Felt like 1000 sit ups day before...Rocky? I would do it again as it is a major tool..... in the fight.

If you ever come to the Southeastern US give me a line cause you're looking great girl!

I created a Blog at Blog.com Its http://bandsters.blogspot.com/ I'll post on several boards and see what happens...

Pre-Op Weight - 276-280 lbs 1 Year - 226lbs I don't have access to my BMI now. Do it again? ABSOLUTELY. I have 4.5 cc in a 4cc band and I am minimumly restricted. I have to watch what I eat. I started exercising in Sept. 03 and have really kicked it in gear the last 3 months. I run 15 miles a week outside with 2 30 minute elipticle cardio sessions inside along with 3 weight training sessions a week. I have increased my muscle mass quite a bit as I have went so the scale isn't the only tale here. I am or I feel I am straddle of the fence right now. In the next 6 months I plan to see huge improvements. Huge. I am getting my final counsel on doing dental (Vaneers)-?? on 8/25/04 I hope I can afford it. This will be the finishing touches on my journey to health and happiness. I have always been happy by the way but feeling good looking well thats just different and I know you all know what I mean!! The one thing I want to stress is empty calories and lack of exercise. If you want to take this in stride you have made a decision to change your life from now on. It isn't a rose garden nor easy it still takes some work so hit it wide open (if your health permits)!! Alchahol(mixed drinks), Shakes, Sweet juices and protein drinks high calories no bulk!!! I eat oatmeal for breakfast with an Ezekial Wheat germ and sprout pice of toast(this bread is awesome) In the freezer section of your health food section. I use a tablespoon of honey for sweets. I'm hooked on putting chicken breast(boneless and skinless) in the crockpot for hours, then having shredded chkin on hand to eat. You can do it many ways now!! ENOUGH!!! Good luck to all. This board has been a tremendous help by the way. I am here for any of you who needs help!!