losing 20 pounds is great and i dont consider that a failure and the more negative you are, the more miserable you will be..
...so you and band are obviously working...20 pounds is a great start..
if you dont want that, i will take it..
if you are hungry, EAT.....eat more protein, drink more and stay busy..
what to do now...keep pushing forward on exercising and eating better food and believe in yourself....the band wont work miracles...it will help.
i wish i could offer more but dangit, i believe in YOU
now you need to.