BandedWithLuv

Man question! I had a one night hook up with a guy 9 years ago. Most amazing sex I’ve ever had (he was very dominating yet gentle)! He knows that I’m not the kind of girl that (normally) has hook up sex. He did, through a mutual friend, try to get in touch with me a few months later, but by then I had a boyfriend. So 9 years go by and I run into him a couple months ago & we talked and agreed that we both had a fantastic time! The details he recalled about me really shocked me. We both said that we would love to do it again some time. We exchanged a few emails for about a month. He told me he was really busy with the holidays and work and then nothing. I figured ok no big deal he was just not that into me or has his own stuff going on. I figure if a guy is into you he will call. I admit that I was shocked that he would turn down hot hook up sex with me. Not to sound full of myself because I’m NOT, but the fact is I’m 7 years younger than him, college educated with a successful career. I’m also prettier & at least the same size if not smaller than I was 9 years ago! One not so attractive feature of mine is that I’m in the (slow) process of divorcing my lying cheating husband. Which I was totally upfront about. So I don’t hear from him for a month then out of the blue he texts me that he is available to get together in a couple days. I was really surprised to hear from him. I thought he had moved on. I don’t play games so I was like “yeah! What do you want to do & when?” We talk for awhile he tells me he is so glad we found each other again & how he thought about me on and off over the years. He says he must have really made an impression on me because I still think about him too, and I admit “yeah you sure did”! Our conversation wraps up with how freaking hot he thinks I am & how he can’t wait to “f” my brains out! He says he’s going to call me the next day and then never does! Two days later he tells me he might have to reschedule because he got busy with work! So my question is if he is not into me why does he keep stringing me along? I ended up telling him that we can do whatever he wants, that he makes me smile & for that I will make time for him when and if he wants me to. I don’t want to marry the guy! I want to get tossed around a bed by him for a few hours & I told him that! I am usually so good at reading people, but this guy has me clueless! Did I put too much pressure on him by telling him how great he was in bed? Am I too eager? Does he feel out of his league? Does he think I’m out of his? Is he insulted that I only want to have sex with him? Do I only want to have sex with him? Am I used to getting what I want & he knows it? Bwahahahaha! Is he playing an intense game with me messing with my head, or is he just not into me? I’m not putting my life on hold or anything. I’ve been meeting other guys and going on a few casual dates. But that damn human nature has me wanting what I can’t have!

Well guys, I still don't really know whats up with this guy. I don't obsess about him like I did at first. We still talk & even hung out a couple times. If he wanted a no strings attached hook up, that would have happened by now. We have a great time when we are together and honestly I have enough going on in my life that I don't really need anything more than that right now. From the questions he asks me and the comments he makes I suspect that he might be waiting to make a move until my divorce is final. Weather that move is going to be casual or serious, I don't know or even care for that matter. Or I could be totally wrong and he just likes flirting with me either way, he is a nice distraction from my real problems. Oh and by the way Pandora, he gave me his number right away.

I'm 3 years post-op and my stomach is covered in stretch marks, which are far more noticeable than my surgical incisions. My port scar healed up to less than an inch, and you really have to look for it among all my stretch marks. I'm sure the incisions would bother me / be more noticeable if not for all of the stretch marks.....Did I mention all my stretch marks? Haha

lellow, I like the way you think! I'm good with all that. I am 99.9% sure he is not married and I wouldn't even consider hooking up with him if he were married. I know there is an ex girlfriend still somewhat in the picture, it would make sense that she might not be the "ex" he made her out to be... Like I said, I don't want to marry the guy lol.