violeteyes37

Hello Everyone Its been a long time. I got an email alert that there was some new post. Im in the same boat as some of the others. At this point I have gained back about 40 lbs of the 110 lost. Im happy that I havent gained it all back but still very ashamed of the weight I have gained. I cant believe that I was given such an amazing opportunity and now Im throwing it all away. I cant blame the band for any of the weight gain. My band does the job it is suppose to. The problem is with me. I eat and throw up on a constant basis or just eat stuff that I know I shouldnt, not to mention the alcohol consumption. I didnt know that after all of this time that our band could still slip Nimblebean Im sorry to hear this has happened to you and wish you the best of luck. Maybe we all can start supporting each other like we use to do in the good old days when we were just starting on this adventure and had the motivation and desire to make it work.

I think I had the worst of sabotagers, my own family including my mother. Im three years out from surgery and have gained back 30 lbs. Im still very happy with my weight loss but upset at the fact that when I was thinner they constantly told me that they thought that I had lost too much weight and that my face was too skinny and that I just didnt look right. Now that I have put back on some weight they comment on the fact that Im gaining my weight back. Now its a fight for me to get back the motivation that I once had. Dont let haters get to you.

Its been two years now since I got my lap band and I'm so grateful for having been given this opportunity. Today I weigh 175 lbs which isn't the lowest I have gotten but I'm still at least 80lbs lighter than I was. Sometimes I get so upset with myself because I'm 20 lbs heavier than my lightest weight but than I have to remind myself how far I have come. The advise that I would give to anyone who is just starting is that its not a miracle cure and we have to constantly work at it. If we do what we are suppose to be doing our band will do its part.

Im in the same situation. In october I received a fill that I thought was going to help me. I finally have restriction but now too much. I have found myself eating bad things just because they go down and stay. Im gaining weight. From my lowest weight Im now up about 30lbs. I cant believe that Im letting this happen again. Im going to try so hard to make this work again. I have too. Im so ashmed of myself. I just realized this thread is over a year old. Oh well it helps just to write down my thoughts to make me more aware. If I post where people can see than I feel as if Im no longer hideing from the truth.

Thanks. I keep trying to tell myself that Im better than what I was but its hard. Im sure you will make it too your goal also. We have to just keep trying.

Hello everyone, as you can tell I havent been on here in forever either. Im back now so ashamed. I was doing so good. I had gotten down to 154 and thought I had this thing licked. Im back today at about 175. Im gaining and dont know how to stop. I know what happened. I let people get into my head. I heard people telling me that I had lost too much weight. Can you believe that. How could I had lost too much weight. So I started to believe it and I started to eat and drink alcohol. Oh yea they had also told me that I was boring now that I wasnt drinking and eating with them every weekend. So I listened and fell right into their trap and known Im stuck and cant get out. Im so afraid that Im going to gain all of the weight back. Im hoping that by coming back on here and reading everyones post that I refind the motivation that I once had. Thanks for listening. :thumbup:

Im also glad to hear that Im not the only one in this situation. I have asked this same question and basically the response I received was that I should be happy that I can eat anything and still lose weight. Thats not the point, and Im so glad to hear other people who understand. I went for another fill on 3/10 which now puts me up to 10.75. My Dr informed me that he wouldnt do another fill, because the band only holds 11, and he doesnt understand how if I claim not to have restriction, how did I lose the weight. At this point I think he believes that Im crazy and that Im trying to develop some type of eating disorder. He doesnt believe me when I tell him that I can eat anything and in large amounts if I wanted too. But from what I have read on the board, it can be overfilled, and if he wont do it I will just find another dr who will. Like everyone else I feel like Im losing my will power and I was expecting the band to step in once that happened. With that being said I still love my band and as long as it doesnt give up on me Im not giving up on it. Im going to continue to do what I should.

I have the VG and Im currently at 10.5. Within the last week or so Im just starting to feel what I have been thinking restriction would feel like. On some foods I need to take my time or I guess it gets stuck. All of the weight I have lost has been without having any problems eating, most people think its a good thing to beable to eat what you want and still lose, but Im happy to finally be having problems getting things down. Now that I have lost weight its more important to have restriction so that I keep it off.

The plateau buster is basically like going low carb for a while. I have been thinking about doing low carb to hurry up and get to goal. It really shouldnt be too hard because most of us have already cut bread, rice and pasta out of our diets anyway.

Me too. My computer was on the way out the window:biggrin: when I decided to look and see if anyone else was having problems. Like you said it seems to be just this website. Alex I think this may mean something. Sometimes once the page loads, off to the side as if it is a ad, I see a message that says 504 gateway timeout. I did a search to see if it was an error with my computer and found that it has something to do with the website.

Thanks so much for that article. This is actually what I fight with each day. For some reason I want to equate good restriction with no being able to eat food and to date I havent found anything I cant eat and Im now at 10.5 cc in my band almost maxed out. Though just like the guy in the article my weight loss has been great and Im almost to goal. I have to wrap my mind around a new meaning of what good restriction means to me.

Yea Im kind of doing south beach. I have been eating those darn little cereal bars and now Im completely hooked. I promised myself that once this box is gone Im not buying them anymore because I cant control myself. There no longer a healthy low calorie snack if your eating 3 of them a day. :cursing:

Monica, I'm surprised you're unable to sleep on your stomach. Have you discussed that with your doc? That would make me too sad.[/quote I have and you know what his response was. If it hurts to sleep on my stomach than dont. This is not the Dr who orginally did my surgery. A couple of months after my surgery I found out that my Drs contract wasnt extended and he had left the practice. I was hoping to just go to where ever my Dr had went but there was some kind of no compete clause in his contract that wont allow him to practice within 200 miles.