I got the same advice from alot of ppl. I personally did a lot of research and you are doing the #1 safest surgery when it comes to Weight Loss. I was banded on March 1st with no complications, 3 other ladies I know are having it done. We are all doing it kind of together. The worst thing I endured was GAS pain. Dont let anyone talk you out of the best thing you could do for YOU! I hope all will go well for you as it has done for me.