PattyGirl66

Jennifer, we love having you here! You add such pizzazz to this site, and just think of all the knowledge you have gained before your surgery! You are going to be another success story!!

I have been on this site 7 months "prior" to be banded. Actually, I started on the 'chat' forum before and had met some really nice people who were tremendously helpful in answering all of my "pre" banding questions. As soon as I started doing more research, asking questions is where I found one of my best friends on this site. She has been my rock through this whole journey. My husband and I wouldn't know what to do without her (Missy). I come here pretty much for the same reason you all do. Support, Motivation, and Inspiration. I love reading about all the success stories, and of course looking at the before /after pictures are GREAT! Every story gives us all inspiration and hope! I am still early on my journey, but I have learned and gained sooo much knowledge from my fellow bandsters!

My girl!!! x0x0x00x0x

Can 't wait to see MsRhonda

B, that was very well put....

Hi Jennifer, I think many of us 'subconsciously' think that, or in my case I fear I will never reach my goal because of how long I have been overweight. I do know this time around its different because i have a tool now, that as long as I do my part, I will continue to achieve my dream of losing this weight and keeping it off, and so will you....

You said it best hon... Believe me, we all have a lot to learn from our bands Hope you feel better (hugs)

My granddaughter (she is almost 7) she wanted to name my band, so she did "Bandilla" She doesn't like her very much she says, LOL I really liked what Floridays said about how your Mom carried you for 9 months, and you will carry her always. That was really deep and touching. I am very lucky to have my Mom around, we are very close and only 16 years apart. She is super supportive and couldn't be happier for me having this surgery. She tells me all the time how brave I am to have had it done. I know your Mom would feel the same way....

I personally agree with the majority here and say go for it! It will be a diet, your band will be empty, and you will be basically doing what everyone else will be doing, is watching what they eat! Best of luck and I hope you win!

I love that! Every Holiday my granddaughter and I make something for her to bring to class. We have so much fun together!

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B, I still love looking at your profile picture

I found this online, you can pretty much find any food menu and get the nutrional facts on it. I think what TKW said sounds to be just fine... here ya go! http://www.sparkpeople.com/calories-in.asp?food=chinese+chicken+with+broccoli

<-- Really wish it would stop all together, I am getting at that age now, LOL

From one NJ gal to the other, best wishes and sending good karma your way! Can't wait to hear all about your progress

I love your new profile tooooo! Look at you skinny minnie

That is a tough one! Maybe put yourself in her shoes. If it were you would you want to know? Be kind and sound concerned, like hey there could be something medically wrong going on here. .. If you and her are very close friends, you can have a conversation like this with her. Best of luck,

Hi Rebecca, My surgeon like yours asked what goal would I like to set my weight at, I said 190. According to the BMI chart that would still put me in a higher body mass index bracket, ..I am shooting for 'Healthy". He has no problems with this at all, and once I get to my goal we will discuss going lower, but as of right now my goal is 190. Yes, I am certain he would like me to go lower and in due time the subject will come up.

Really Cheryl?? Not only did you tell her 'what to do" you also called her OBESE, YES YOU said it! Wow, nothing you say ever surprises me on this forum. YOU are really a class act...... I think you need to apologize to Rebecca and maybe next time, THINK before you write! Isn't that what writers do????

Name, real or screen~ Patricia Goal weight for February 28th~ To finally lose -100lbs (total) that will be ( -9lbs) Weight on February 1st~ 276 Age~ 49 Dietary goal for February~ More dark green Veggies Exercise goal for February~ Start Swimming at the local indoor pool Personal goal for February~ Pay off some debts Date banded~ July 25, 2012 Total weight loss since banding/pre op diet~ -91 What is your favorite Valentine's Day activity?~ Wine and dine with Hubby :wub:

omg, that is hysterical!!!!!!!!!!

<---- just showed my hubby your picture. Hes sulking now.........