Hello, I didn't tell a lot of people about my lap band either. I didn't want to hear any negativity. When I did tell the (selective) people I was having surgery. I did what you did, I was having a hernia repaired. I did my lap band December 1, 2011. I do not have regrets what so ever. I am adjusting to my new life. I lost about 22lbs since my lap band and I am ready to do the work to lose even more. It feel good to finally see 100's. I have been in the 200's so long, it felt almost normal. Now, I have a positive aspect on my life apearance and I can start wearing the clothing I want and not be embarrassed by how it look on me. Don't be nervous, you will do fine, and things will work out great for you! I can say that now because I was Nervous and my best friend told me the same thing too. Good Luck!!!!