You should be nervous, that means you are serious about the next step. I too was nervous, I even cried when the anasthesiologist entered my room, he gave me something for that and it was all better. If you research your surgeon and look at everything they have done, and you feel confident in their ability, then just do it! I looked into it several times before I actually had the surgery and I wish I hadn't been so chicken! I was banded on 11/15/11 and I have lost 84#, I have had a great experience and I would do it again. The recovery from lap band is not that difficult, just take the pain meds religiously for the first 3 to 4 days. Then enjoy your shrinking self! Good Luck!