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OMG! This thread was written for me! I am currently experiencing weight gain and am sooooo depressed! I recently had a TT and I have done nothing but consistently put on weight. I am up 5lbs since my TT and have no excuses. I eat like a pig and can't seem to stop myself! My daughter and BF keep telling me to stop and slow down and the more I am aware of what I'm doing the more I want to keep eating! I can't seem to figure out what is bothering me and why I am obsessed and DEMAND to sabotage myself! I'm screaming out for help but I know I am the only one that can stop this insanity but I just can't seem to do it. Because of this thread I am going to start tracking my food again on myfitnesspal.com and I am going to start walking for exercise again. Thanks to everyone for the inspiration and insight!

Good luck and Godspeed!!!

NOTHING! I can't praise the VSG enough! It has changed my life and I recommend the VSG to anyone that is considering bariatric surgery. I chose to have the "single" incision VSG through my belly button. It wasn't to have less incisions and worried about scars and vanity, it was to hopefully have less pain from the surgery. I had ZERO pain after surgery! A lot of people have stated that they have gas, pains, can't sleep on one of their sides, and just uncomfortable pain from the surgery but with the single incision there is NO pain at all! I'm sure some people might have some pain even with the single incision but I had none. It's a bit more expensive but well worth it at least for me!

O.k., i'm 49 and had a TT 2 months ago!!!! I am not too old to enjoy it! TRUST me, i've already experienced some things behind closed doors that were unimagineable before!!! Give it to the starving children you ask? I give, give, give all the time and think if I would have only given to myself more i wouldn't have gotten in to this place I'm in! Giving isn't always monetary so give to the needy your time if you feel compelled. I don't think that I could fully appreciate my thin self without removing the skin. I WILL BE WEARING A BIKINI THIS SUMMER IN ALL MY GLORY OF BEING THIN....Your friend asked you "what's it matter anyways and who is going to see you in a bikini? the answer is........ME!!!!!!!!

I'm kind of enjoying the "no panties" look! I just had a TT so I'm not back in to panties yet and it's definately different and something I would never have done before because I wore panties to help hold in the bulges!!! Loving my VSG and cosmetic surgeries!!!

Wishing you health and luck on the new chapter in your life!

Too cool! I can't wait to read responses!

My doc told me that I would have to be careful with drinking alcohol because I would get drunk much faster now due to the VSG but that was it.

AMEN! AMEN! AMEN! AMEN! AMEN! AMEN! AMEN! AMEN!

I am soooo happy to hear that all went well for you and that you're happy with the results!!! CONGRATULATIONS and I can't wait to see the before and after pics!!! I'm so excited for you!

HOORAY AND CONGRATS TO YOU! You look amazing!!! I'm 2 months out from my TT and am very pleased as well. Can't wait to get the thigh lift!

VA VA BOOM! You are simply gorgeous! Good for you and CONGRATULATIONS on your new life!

I use myfitnesspal.com too. It is so user friendly and has a huge database of foods for the nutritional information.

How exciting for you! Good luck on your journey!

I have gained weight, lost weight, gained weight and lost weight again. There have even been a few times that I lost over 50 lbs and still gained it back plus more. I'm a little over a year since my VSG and it was the BEST decision of my life! No more yoyou dieting to only gain it back. The sleeve limits the amount of food you can eat at one time which helps a lot! Unfortunately, you will still be able to "graze" throughout the day and will put weight back on if your not careful BUT it's nothing like before the VSG. I will notice I'm putting on a few pounds and then I'll stop the grazing for awhile and get back in control and my weight goes back down. I personally would never have been able to keep the weight off without the VSG. Prior to my VSG I kept asking myself the same questions that you are...I can do it myself. I have before, so why not again? and am I just being stupid and taking the "easy way out"? These statements/questions are all too common from people like you, me and members on this site. Almost all of us on here have lost weight before on our own...the problem is...keeping it off and keeping our weight under control. Yes, you definately have cold feet as most of us did. I have no regrets doing the VSG and have recommended it to many of my friends and family members. Good luck and if you need to lose the weight one more time on your own then do so but if you want to get to the end of the insanity of yoyo dieting and exercising then I recommend keeping your appointment and going through with the VSG. It's such a personal decision that nobody is going to be able to tell you one way or the other of what to do. Be honest with yourself and really evaluate what you want. Good luck on your journey!

I used Dr. Ganta. He performed the single incision through my belly button and I had zero complications. I never needed any pain meds.

QUIT BEATING YOURSELF UP!!! A lot of us did the same thing you are doing and that's exactly why we all had the VSG! You CAN'T fix your problems on your own and that's why your getting the VSG. My opinion is...why try to fix things in the 11th hour? It makes no sense. Now, if your doc says you MUST lose weight and you MUST go on a certain diet before your operation then you absolutely should. My doc didn't mandate a certain diet until 3 days prior to surgery so trust me, I at everything I could get my hands on! So, what if I gained 10 lbs before my surgery?! The weight didn't come on overnight and it won't all come off overnight either. In other words, the weight is going to come off after your VSG so just don't sweat it for now. It would be much better for you going in to surgery with a healthy positive mind then stressed, negative and disappointed (once again) in yourself. Again, as long as you are otherwise healthy and your doc doesn't tell you that you must go on a diet or lose weight prior to surgery. Good luck!

WELCOME! I'm very excited for you! A lot of us on here have been in your very shoes...awaiting surgery date and scared, nervous, reluctant and anxious all at once. There is a plethora of information, tips, and support on this site and you will NEVER be alone! Good luck on your journey!

Ohhhhh, noooo! I am soooo sorry you are having complications! I wish you a speedy recovery and you are in my thoughts and prayers. Keep me posted on your recovery and if you need anything...a shoulder...a friend, please feel free to contact me anytime!

Thank you It's all new! You just had a TT and thigh lift 2 weeks ago? Good for you! I think my next cosmetic surgery will be my thighs. I keep changing my mind on which surgery will be next. I can't imagine doing them at the same time. Which type of thigh lift did you have? I hope you are doing well and I wish you a speedy recovery. Please post after pictures for all of us

THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU! You all are all sooooo kind and inspiring! Gmanbat....OMG!...a 20 year old's stomach?!...are you married (just kidding!)? You make me feel so great! It's not easy putting pictures out there for all to judge. It's funny how hard it is to post pictures of myself AFTER weight loss and TT. Before my VSG I remember looking at pictures on here of post VSG and cosmetic surgeries and thought how I couldn't wait to be able to post pictures of myself but it's still hard. I wouldn't even have considered it if I didn't know that everyone on this site is or has had a journey of weight problems or weight surgery or cosmetic surgery just like me. Thanks again!

THANK YOU, Coops! I really needed a compliment like that!