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oh yea buy the clearance/cheaper clothing not like the plus size always expensive

THANK YOU ALL!! I broke up with my BF today and Idk how i feel if im happy sad upset or maybe it just seems unreal still so idk i need to give it sometime so it can sink in and marinade but i do feel re-leaf but at the same time it almost feels like were not broken up and its still the same.....he keeps texting me nothing but love text's and i really just want a break i want to be away from him and find myself i been in a relationship for soooo long and i just dont want a partner im growing up and trying to find myself and become the woman im supposed to become and having someone on my side wont let me.....ugh why is this so hard!!!!

I AM SO SORRY i know it doesn't help but idk what i would do without my mom shes the one mainly helping me on all of this! i instantly started to tear up when i read your forum! i can't imagine how hard this must be for you this site is so awesome im sure you will get so much support on here including myself! just keep moving forward have faith and live life to the fullest!!

OMG!! I want to wear Cute CLOTHES and wear HEELS!!! Fit in the rides in amusement parks!!! get out the shower and dry my body without loosing my breath n stop SWEATING!!!! Get a great job get back into school and not have to worry if ill fit in the desks! HECK FIT IN CHAIRS!!! i can keep going i just really believe that there will be endless opportunities out the personal, and professionally life I want to start my own cake business!!! or wishful thinking be a "model!" lol OH be a makeup artist for big movie productions or magazines w.e! omg soo many things that i want to do im 24 and have my life ahead of me with so many possibilities!!

I think its really just your choice! My whole family knows and they are all soooo supportive and keep me motivated and really have my back! and my closest friends as well the only person that doesn't like the idea is my BF because he swears I'm going to leave him UGH! that's a waaayy different story... but ne ways i don't think its something to just tell a complete stranger or a co-worker, acquaintance's out of nowhere....unless they ask but other then that my personal opinion is I wont tell but also i wont hide it that is who i am and its a part of me who it will make me and who i was no need to hide the true me....

CONGRATS!!!!!! that is awesome!!

THANK YOU SO MUCH GirlS!! Im more calm now im just so excited n so many feelings that im sure you all went through when you found out ur surgery date it becomes more real!! thank you so much for all the great advice

I'm not married but I been W my bf for over 5yrs I think that its all about how u feel since u gained n he changed the way he was with you probably because u changed on how u feel about yourself you kno he feeds of Ur energy ...also maybe he will be diffrent after surgery but u will gain more confidance and also maybe deep down he's scared you would leave him so hell give you more attention my bf is tereffied he swears.I'm going to leave him he's a heavier guy as well but I have no intensions on leaving him as long as he treats me good ......

GOOD LUCK I HOPE EVERYTHING GOES WELL FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!

TOTALLY!!! i will add you i didnt know about this app by the way! THANKS!!

Okay so I read a few things havnt seen any questions about a drain my question is how long do they leave it and is it unconfterble? ....I'm new btw my sergery is AUG.28th 2012 I'm so excited I start my liquid diet till Aug 16th I'm currently trying to loose 15lbs before the16th dr orders ....

Thanks I'm def checking it out....

I have been lucky enough to have my Whole Family on my side with this if it wernt for them i probably would have backed out cuz i am a lil scared but im sure it's normal they push me everyday and are very sportive! ......But you need to do what you know is best for you your fam is just scared that something will go wrong and dont understand What is most important is yourself and you need to take care of your first dont let anyone bring you down cuz no one really knows how we struggle everyday with our obisity and its easy for them to judge....... if this is what you really want you go girl and get ur VSG!