When I decided to have the surgery, of course my husband knew and I also told my two teenage children. When my husband couldn't come with me I decided I didn't want to go alone so I told one of my best friends. Well in order for her to go she told her husband who threw a fit. Mexico?!! Just the reactions I was avoiding. She told her mom too. So much for not telling anyone. But I hardly ever see her mom so no big deal. At work I just told my supervisor I was having hernia repair (a lie but I felt it was necessary) Other than her no one else knows. I haven't seen anyone in my family since surgery and will still keep it quiet with them until I am confident in how it is working. (I am almost 2 weeks post op)
Hope this helps.
Val
Banded 3-8-07 Dr. Ortiz
Pounds lost so far 15