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I am not sleeved but it sounds to me like a statement I have made. It is something (another excuse) why one has not taken control of their own destiny and made a change. It is not your fault for he is fat. In less you hand tied him and shoved the food down his throat. I also have a great wonderful luvable husband (who is naturally physically fit) who has gained a few pounds(very few!!!) and has made comments on how it is b/c of my eating habits, well that is a bunch of malarky. lol I think they're ego is involved.lol Just my opinion.

Really, that is very encouraging considering the pain of the hysterctomy, thanks.

Oh yeah, by the way I know of at least one restaurant, Cracker Barrel , that has a kid's menu that says it is for Kids of all ages. Still a lot of food with a good variaty.

What an inspiration you are. I can not wait to continue to hear of your journey. I believe your Mom would be very proud of your dedication to getting healthy. Be sure to post some pics as you lose. Keep caring for your self and do not spend to much time watching cable alone. Mr. Wonderful is out there waiting for you!!!!! I am not saying you NEED to have a boyfriend but new boyfriends sure are fun!!!!

i am not sleeved yet but from reading on here you are actually one of those that are blessed with not having a sudden stall. Do not look for something wrong. Everything you pointed out sounds very positive. Sounds like God is blessing you with exactly what you need at the time, enjoy your ride. Also congrats on the downsize, soon enough those 26's will fall of even with the rope. I can not wait to be sleeved!!!!! You are doing wonderful!!!!!

YOU ARE SUCH AN INSPIRATION!!!!!!

I am a waitress. I am not sleeved yet (hopefully soon) but often run into people that I believe have had WLS surgery. I being experienced, I would never question why someone did not eat there meal. Do not get me wrong, if they are unsatified with their food, by all means I would do what I could to make them happy. When a server is trying to see why you did not eat, they are trying to satisfy you to improve there tip. It is ignorant to be pushy and rude but I do not know how intentional. Servers mainly are doing this for one reason, to improve their tip by trying to improve your dining experience. This might sound crazy but maybe you are being to nice. I have had mixed messages from guests, wondering do they want the extra attention or do they want to be left alone. What I would do in this situation is when the meal is served and all plates are down, so you have thier attention, look directly at him and say "can I have a carryout container NOW, I am sure I will not finish all of this". Then directly move your eyes away, leaving no room for any conversation. Short and sweet. As a server you get a feel if people want to conversate or not. . All though there is a lot of people that should not be in the profession, most do not want to upset a guest or they are wasting thier time and not making any money. Basically eye contact stating what you want then move your eyes away and body language stating you are done conversing. When they bring the container, smile. look at their eyes and say thanks and move your eye contact away. They will then know they had met your need. I have also learned from my profession that when someone states that they have had a medical issue, surgery, whatever.... they generally are opening the door to want to conversate. As a server you are basically just trying to build a repore for a short period of time. There are some REALLY not so smart servers that ruin the guest dinner out and in turn ruin their tip. I see this happen with all kinds of issues all of the time, not just WLS. Sorry so long,hope this helps.

That is awesome!!!!!!

Since I have decided to be sleeved ( I am not yet) I have gained about 15 lbs. It really is the "worst" and "hardest" 15 lbs. I regret it terrible. I had no physical ailments related to weight except for my appearence yet since my recent weight gain, my feet ache, my back hurts and now finally my wedding rings no longer fit. You would think that would halt it as this stage considering I need to prepare myself. I have asked myself why, I can not come up with an obvious answer why I continue to sabatage when I am so gong ho and excited about being sleeved. I can say there is a fear behind it for I feel it but can not quite say it is because I will no longer have food. I realize I can eat in the future, I read read read on here. Look up all types of info on being sleeved but continue to just eat. I know this surgery is not magic fix it all surgery. It is hard work and dedication. I just keep saying -this to shall pass..... focus, focus, focus. Being aware is part of growing out of it right. I am surprised but not really so many are doing this. I am so glad I seen this post. Somehow it gives me hope.

Congrats to you! Can not wait to be sleeved. You have so much to look forward to especially with your child.

Wow, you now look like you would be the younger sister of the first photo. Awesome. You look completely different, related but different.

Congrats!!! Praying for a speedy recovery.

I am not sleeved yet but have been on this site for several months. I am in the same position as Lissa, with no equipment but would surely be interested in finding some at a inexpensive rate... (saving for sleeve..lol) . Excellent idea!!!

I feel the same for the most part. I do not like attention like that. Not if I am losing or gaining. You look nice works just fine for me. I have a lot of immature back stabbing women at my job and cringe thinking about after I am sleeved. I have not and will not say a word. A year or two ago I lost about 40 plus pounds and this gal, who is a big girl became very mean and hateful. Since I have gained it back she is nice again. I truly want to lose to be healthy, tie my shoes, run with my kids, sit on my husband's lap, ect. I dread the attention. I am not shy but it makes me feel very uncomfortable and anxious.

That is wonderful, I am very happy for you!!

Thank you so much for sharing that. I can see how easy it is to not drink when you are busy with life. This is the time to focus on you. I could so easily do the same thing after I am sleeved, now I am more aware of that. thanks again!!

You look great, you should be very proud of your accomplishment! By the way... you are a very beautiful young lady!!

You give back all the time. Thank you so much for your posts, encouragement and your concern. It does not go unnoticed! I hope one day after I am sleeved that I can help others as much as your posts have helped me.

I second that... thank you so much for posting that. Your experience is a realistic view with inspiration. Congrats on being sleeved and I pray for a fast recovery for you!!!

My heart goes out to you and your situation. Due to the fact that you rely on prayer then hopefully it will give you comfort to know that it is in God's timing when this will work out. You do not see it now but there is a reason, and it is a good one why it has not happened yet. One day you will not only be blessed with the perfect right time to be sleeved but also understand why it is then and not now. Those words are meant to comfort you. Rely on your faith foremost!!! Your husband is scared, that is the real issue, you do not need that right now, but reconize what it is, It truly isn't opposition, it just feels like it right now. I see it that he loves you a whole bunch. Just wondering,... could you turn that vacation time into $'s and save up for MX. There are some great Dr. down there that have tons of experience, some way more than in the states. If that is even a consideration, be VERY choosy!!! Do not go on price alone. I myself have not been sleeved yet, finances fell through a month or so ago and everything seemed to turn against me getting sleeved. I now honestly see how much better off I am for that happening. It was disheartning and I cried for days but now I am so much better off. I should be sleeved here in the next couple of months. I can not wait!!! One more thing, you said something that was key ... STAY POSITIVE, EVEN IF IT LOOKS BLEEK, that is the only way and fastest way to make it happen. A good attitude, especially dealing with red tape goes a lot further than being negitive. I would want to push someones paperwork through that was sweet, even go the extra mile, verses someone agrravated and hostile. God Bless you Sleeve Sister, I am praying for you right now!!!!

You look many years younger. Be very proud, I do not mean that in a vane way. I know you understand. The hard work and dedication is something that should be commended. Love your video and especially your Bible verses. Your an inspiration!

thank you~ Wow you are doing great, goal is right in front of you! Congrats!!!!

So many that are sleeved in the US have to go through so many tests before being approved for surgery. How is it that so many just fly off to MX and in 24 hours are sleeved? I plan on going to MX, I have done a lot of research and also have chosen a qualified surgeon (not based on $).I planned on being sleeved in Jan. but finances have pushed the date back. Before, my date was pushed back I went to the doctors and had blood work drawn and a physical. Everything was normal except my weight of course, 95 lbs to lose. I did that to have a comparitve point of reference. Since then,15 lbs have crept on, suddenly I ache all over , ankles swell, I just feel really rough. Maybe it is because I am more aware but now, everything hurts more. It is strange like these last 15 lbs put me somewhere I have never experienced before, besides the fact my wedding rings no longer fit . I wonder now if I go to MX in the near future, will I be turned down? More than that I wonder, what if I have heart issues, or diabetes or something else that did not show up, will they be aware even if I am not? I have never seen on here where someone went to MX and they were turned down for surgery. Does everyone pass through? I am concerned with risky surgery, wasted airfare, time off from work, losing my hard earned deposit. I do not have insurance. More dr. and bloodwork is soo expensive, am I over reacting? sorry to ramble. thanks for any input .

BEt you beating the girls off with a stick! You look great!!!