I am NOT enjoying being obese I am totally miserable. But I am attached to food, isn't that why anyone becomes obese? I am asking how it feels to detach from food emotionally, is it hard on people to the point where they regret it... that is what I fear and want to know from others. But I am ready to start a life, I have literally pressed pause on my life since I gained this weight, I am stuck and its getting worse every year.