Well I am just a week post-op so I am still a newbie but more importantly I am a foodie, that will never change. I didn't gain weight from fast food or soda. I have always been a foodie, my kids grew up with fresh fruits and vegetables, I never bought frozen. But there lies the problem. I cooked, REALLY cooked all the time. In the summer I BBQ or use my smoker to smoke pork, beef and lamb. I make fresh roasted vegetables and I EAT, no such thing as portion control for me. My husband and I are also restaurant junkies. My favorite websites are chowhound and menupages to search for great places here in NJ or NYC.Our kids are now in their 20's and live in Brooklyn and Queens, they both work in great restaurants in Manhattan so we go where they work to visit them too. I live to eat, i think about it all the time. My husband is a surfer so the most he has ever had to lose is 10 maybe 15 pounds. Right now I am still on liquids, but hey.. I have some great Soup recipes and i can think of some great Soups in my favorite restaurants. ALSO, Trader Joe's has some fantastic meals for my hubby ( all kinds of international foods), and tonight I had Trader Joe's creamy tomato soup with 2 teaspoons of TJ's avocado salsa verde. yummy. and under 200 calories!I am so ready to lose weight.