You are very attractive as you are and the lap band will not change your inner soul. Eating for me was also social....." Where are we going for breakfast......Where are we going for dinner...." With any procedure there are many hoops to jump through, many personal changes have to be made........ and remember...... The band is only a tool. I am still the same person inside my wife married 31 years ago only now I weight 300+ lbs. and have lost my hair........ I did it because ( I ) want to live longer...much longer....... you may be healthy now, but what about 5 years down the road? The band may prevent bad medical issues. The decision is yours......... MARKW6