So after 16 years of struggling, up and down, weight watchers, south beach, low carb, cleanses, 3 hour gym days and the list goes on and on...I have finally decided to get the lap band. I told myself last year that if I could not successfully lose it on my own with diet and excerise that I would get the surgery. I realized that after all these years, I am just tired of the struggle and I need a hand. I realized 40 is around the corner and I need to put an end to this struggle. So my decision is made and my consult appointment too. My husband and I are both going to go through this journey. He started his journey in 2008 and never went through with it. He successfully lost the weight but of course after all that hard work he has gained it back. We both are 100% on board with getting the lapband and he is considering the sleeve. My only fear is , will it fail? I don't even want to tell many people because if I don't succeed I don't want to embarass myself. Of course I realize that all the years of failing at diets I have no confidence that this will work. I have heard stories that many have gained it back or that the process is really slow. I am willing to put the work in and workout etc., I just want to succeed. Anyone else going through this or has gone through this that could give me some words of encouragement?