Hi,
I am new to this and getting banded this month, sooo not even banded yet. But, I just wanted to comment from what I have read it seems you are being able to eat to much. It is my understanding we should only be able to eat about 1/4 cup of food at a time. You said you are going in for your 3rd fill, hopefully this will be the one that restricts you better. Have you called and talked with the doctor who performed your surgery, and/or the nutrionalist? Make sure you are honest about the amount of food you are able to eat with them as well. Don't get discouraged, you just haven't had the band filled to where it needs to be yet. Are you doing any exercise? If not, try to walk just 5 minutes a day, before you know it, once you're out there, you'll want to walk longer. For most people, it's just getting out the door. And I find it much easier when I tell myself "It's only for 5 minutes"....but then I walk a little longer each time:) It will get better, I"m sure of it.
Take care,
Cyndy