CherryT

My husband has recently shrunk out of his 4x shirts and I wanted to put 'em up for grabs here first. They are business casual shirts including polos of varying colors, a couple of long sleeve button downs and many short sleeved button downs. I also have some long sleeve thermal type henley pullovers and probably some other things that we haven't discovered yet. I can send photos if you like. Thanks bunches.

No takers eh? Ah well, to goodwill they go...

My husband is having surgery on Sept 19th and I'm stressing hard. He's such a great guy.Sweet, loving, Very charismatic and extremely smart. I had a mini-meltdown the other night worrying (i'm a worrier, always have been) about all the what ifs. What if he doesn't make it through the surgery? What if the support I offer isn't enough to keep him sane during the "buyers remorse", depression period. and then the ultimate hit me. What if, when he gets all thin, he realizes that he never had the opportunity to date around and that he just settled for me? I think, regardless of a woman's size, this is going to be a concern. Even if they don't voice it. In my head, I know my husband adores me and we're best friends and more than likely, everything is going to work out just fine but that little niggling doubt still sits in there. There really oughta be a forum in here for spouses of VS patients. Help us assuage our fears and maybe even give us tips on how best to support our spouses during this tough time.