melissa45154

I know...I haven't had a bmi of that high for 2 years...only in the last 6 months. Although I have been above a 35 for 2 years, but didn't get diagnosed with my co-morbidity until last month......I voiced that concern to my case manager. While I was on the phone with her she IM'd a pre-cert nurse with Aetna. That nurse says, that she doesn't really look at the detailed 2 years, and just really looks at the current situation. Unless, there is some other red flags.....My case manager told her all about me and she said if she was my pre-cert nurse she'd approve me, so I'm feeling a little better about that issue.....The stress can be overwhelming. Let me know how it goes for you. I have been told that Aetna is one of the fastest to make a decision. At least there shouldn't be a long delay from submitting to finding out....fingers crossed

Hi, and welcome. I am fairly new at this like you. I am 3 weeks into my insurance requirements. I have really lucked out. Normally, my insurance (Aetna) requires the 6 month, but this year our employer added a specific clause that allows us to do it in 3 months. It isn't the multi-disciplinary like some people have. It is just 3 months of physician supervised diet, and a pysch consult. I have had my pysch consult already. I'm going ahead and having a sleep study done on Thursday night. My doc can submit for approval on Dec. 5. So excited, but so nervous as well. My Christmas will be liquid diet. I was a little upset about that at first. Then it hit me.....that is why I'm needing to do this surgery. I need that little help to stop me from piling in the stuffing or what not. I exercise daily, but don't lose anything. All, because of my diet. I am here to change that. I am really hoping I get approved and fast because I want the surgery done before Jan.1....I know it sounds crazy, but not only will January 1 have the whole symbolic meaning of a new year with new beginnings. Also, I have already met my deductible for this year and if I have the surgery this year, I will have enough medical expenses to claim on my taxes. I also live in Texas, but in the Dallas area. I am a stay at home mom to 2 kids and go to school full time for teaching....a busy life. Good luck to you on your journey.

I'm nervous also. I just started this journey. I'm on a 3 month plan with my insurance company and have 2 months left of it. My case worker said I should be approved to have surgery at the beginning of December. As silly as it sounds I was upset because I figured out with schedules it would be the week before Christmas. I was like I my goodness I'll have to start December off on the liquid pre-surgery diet and then not even get to eat "Christmas Dinner". My husband even said, but you'll miss all your favorite holiday food. Then, it hit me.......isn't that why I got to the wait I am now? I didn't realize before now my connection with food and how it is literally taking my life from me. I started thinking of all the Mt. Dew's I've hid from people so they didn't realize how much of the stuff I really drink, and my poor kids. I drop one son off at school and immediately go to Sonic's or Arby's for breakfast. My 4 year old said to me 2 days ago.....'I hate Arby's. Why are you always taking me here." As lame as it sounds I broke down. I am finally starting to "get it". What I'm doing to myself and my family. I also, always put them first for everything. I am now putting myself first. I've wanted to do this for 2 years, but felt ashamed of it. Now, I'm over it and know this is what I need. It's not for everyone, but I've been researching and secretly wanting this for 2 years. I'm a pretty smart gal. If in the past 2 years I still think something is what I need,,,,,,then I NEED THIS. I'm petrified, but am ready for the challange.......(side note) the biggest thing worrying me right this second is the pre-op liquid diet.....Hang in there and keep us updated on your progress.

I just wanted to say hi. I am new to this website, but I'm also just starting my lap band journey. I'm very excited to finally start taking control of my life. However, I'm also very nervous of "screwing up". I've failed so many diets and I am determined to get through the approval process and then lose weight on the ban. I'll admit it that I am nervous about everything that this process involves. Hopefully, once I'm into it further I will be more relaxed and able to enjoy the star of my new life.