I know EXACTLY what you are going through! I was banded in January 2011 and to date have only lost 30 pounds. I keep reading all of the other posts of people who have lost amazing amounts of weight in their first six months after surgery and it makes me feel like I am totally failing at this. I exercise regularly and have changed my eating habits, but I guess I just haven't found my "sweet spot" yet with my fills. While I am happy that I am steadily losing the weight, the slowness of it is rather discouraging. You are definitely not alone!!