I am also keeping my Lap Band surgery a secret. My procedure is slated for February of 2012 for work related reasons. Anyway, I don't want anyone to know because I have to admit, I'm embarrassed that I couldn't lose the weight on my own. The surgery seems less invasive than the bypass and with little hospital stay and short recovery time, hopefully, I can just say I'm on a diet and for once, I am successful. With everyone putting their business on Facebook and other sites on the internet, I'm just not interested in being an open book.