HELLO EVERYONE!!!
I'm new to the forum, and new to the bariatric world. I'm a virgin in the subject as well. I have been researching and reading literally since yesterday and attended a seminar just last night by a surgeon in the Pembroke Pines area (Dr. Jeremy Gallego Eckstein), speaking of the 3 different surgeries, pros and cons. I had sworn I would NEVER do the gastric bypass, and that is still my position. The lap band just doesn't seem as effective and I don't like the idea of having a foreign object in my abdominal area. So I've been seriously considerinig the VSG. I too, like others, am afraid of losing a part of my organ (stomach), but I AM SO READY FOR PERMANENT SOLUTION that I'm leaning in that direction very seriously. I have recently hit a new all time high of 242 lbs. I almost feel numb to this new number, but it sure is doing a number on my head and my heart. I'm 47 and 5'4". This just can't continue. I have an 18 yr old daughter, my only one, and I don't make a change NOW I may not enjoy my future grandchildren, and God knows I love kids!!!! I also have 2 little new adopted nephews, 4 and 1, whom I love with all my heart, and I can hardly keep up with them.
So I have been reading people's experiences. There have been some very good ones, with incredible weight losses, but some I've been haven't lost that much. I know everyone is different, their post-op is different, recovery, weight loss, etc.. **** I WOULD GREATLY appreciate hearing of the GOOD, THE BAD AND THE UGLY from thos of you who have already had the surgery. I know a lot of you are very happy to see the weight come off, but I want to know what you have struggled with the most, AND if any of you have had the leakage problem, that seems to be the biggest issue after surgery. Dr. Eckstein last night, did make mention of this, thankfully, but he explained that he cauterizes the cut, stapples, AND glues it as well. Seems pretty "reinforced" but he said you never know...it can still happen and then he has to go back in to correct it.
P.S.****I TOO, AM A VSG FLORIDIAN.....in South Florida***** needless to say I don't know what it's like to enjoy our beaches and wear a bathing suit!! that's a no-no at my weight! (well at least when you have some self respect!!)
THANK YOU IN ADVANCE!!!!!