I'm 18 days post-op, and would do it again no problem.
A few things that I think should have been brought to the table for me include:
Where the surgery will be located. For me, I thought it would be the next town over, but it was 3 hours away.
How much fills will cost (I wasn't sure if my insurance covered them or not- they do).
What types of labs and tests have to be completed prior to surgery. (I was not made aware of any and had to complete a sleep study 3 hours away, an endoscopy 3 hours away, surgery clearance from my physician, lab work, etc).
The question about how the port is attached is great because I didn't know the difference, but my doctor brought it up to us.
My main question going in was if I could get pregnant (since that's a goal over the next few years- to have kids)
I did read through this website a lot before I decided to go on with my lapband. Things you may read about that don't make sense (at least for me) was the gas pain. That is NO joke. You get this weird pain in your left shoulder, and it truly hurts; but in turn it passes rather quickly, and for me it has been few and far between after the first few days. I have noticed if I eat too much I get the pain as well. If you have any questions, I would love to answer based on my experience. I also know that people are different, and for me I have a blogging buddy who has the same surgery date as me and we have had two totally different experiences.
Best wishes!