Bob, thanks for all the info. Went to my first follow up with MD and he told me basically the same as your surgeon did, try really mashed soft things, so I will go from there. If you come up with any other good food ideas, I would like to hear them!
To the person that asked about how much time to take off work, everyone is different, but I can honestly say I was shocked at how bad I felt for about five days! I was tired and weak and in severe pain in the back from the positions they put me in on the surgery table! My port site hurt pretty bad as well. Hope for the best, but prepair for the worst OK and make sure you have days off just in case you need them. Don't push yourself!
Kym