YES! you are doing it for the right reasons. I myself told only 3 people and let them all believe they are the only ones I told. My surgery was on Tues 9.27.11 Feeling better every day. It is YOUR choice to tell people, I did not due to the response I got when I told my boss and her mouth flew open and she said WHY??? Frm then on I kept it tomyself with only me and hubby knowing about it. BEST decision I made. Also, red the forums, you will get very good advise, maybe even a DR in that area... do a search on the town, ask your PCP. Call your ins for a Dr referral. Just some hints.
You didn the hardest thing and that was making the fist step to get the ball rolling, it is all downhill from here/ it was like 8 weeks from the time I visited the Surgeon, to my surgery date, yes you will question yourself, like my Dr told me, if I did not I wuld not be normal. READ READ READ... this is a GREAT Support group.
Best of luck to you.... and you will be in my prayers.