You have to be ready for a lapband! It doesn't do the work for you, but is a tool that helps you. If you follow the 6 meals a day, don't graze, and eat your protein 1st it will work. You just need to be ready for it! It doesn't make you lose weight, you have to do that, but it helps with that hunger. I know that I would lose about 20 or 30 pounds and then get frustrated and start eating again and would gain it back...I know that this is a forever deal and I have changed my lifestyle along with my diet...if you aren't ready, don't do it...it only works if you work with it! I have lost 63.5 pounds and 40 of those are post surgery...it can work!