I was terrified when I got my surgery date. I was banded on 8/1, so I have almost a week under my belt. I will tell you, for me, the worst part so far was from the time I got my surgery date to the actual day of my surgery. I was so scared too but what scared me more was what would happen to me if I didn't have the surgery over the next few years. I am a mom too and that is what gave me the courage to go through with it. I am a total wimp when it comes to things like surgery but I just pushed through and literally told myself to stay strong for my family. Best of luck to you