I showed this post to my hubby and was going to answer that my hubby has always loved me and found me attractive and sexy, and never made me feel bad about being fat, but he does seem more affectionate more than ever...He said that's not true, in fact you are the one that has changed! Say what??? I didn't realize it until he said that.
He said that I'm happier now and more confident, and secure, now that I'm thin. He said he remembers several times where I would complain about not finding something to wear to a wedding or party and be miserable. That is true. So I guess because I've changed it seems I can be free to enjoy my hubby's love and affection in a deeper way without all the hangups that come with being insecure with myself. I believe it now...interesting.