I came across this site when I was looking for chat on lap bands. I am at the point where I just want to research the subject, I don't want to jump into it just yet. I just know gastric bypass surgery is not an option for me because I do not want something that invasive.
I've always been overweight and can remember going into 7th grade at about 140 or so and by graduation I was 179. Now, approaching my 25th birthday next weekend, I am 228 lbs. This puts me at a BMI of 39.2 which scares the crap out of me. I mean I am only 0.8 points away from morbid obesity! I don't think I am at the point where I can't move, but for once I'd just like to be able to walk into Victoria's Secret and buy something. My husband often wants to go in and find something for me to help me feel more beautiful, but it makes me feel a little worse knowing the local store doesn't have a plus sized section so NEWS FLASH.. nothing is going to fit me! I love my husband more than anything and while that situation makes me feel embarassed I'm also glad in the respect that he loves me for who I am and doesn't see me as being a grotesquely huge woman. Don't get me wrong, I want to do this for my health first. I want to be there for my son as he gets older and has kids. I don't want him to have to be teased in school because of how fat his mom is. There's just so many reasons I want to lose weight period.
I tried Weight Watchers and lost.... and then gained and gained and gained some more. I'm giving it another shot to see how I can do this time around but I just want to know my options. If I fail this time I need to know all of my options to slap my weight issue in the a$$ before it slaps some more on mine along with all of the soon to come health problems.
I have a physical scheduled with my doctor for March 8th. Yeah, and I made that back on December 8th! She's a great PCP though and to get a huge time slot with her for something like that is hard.
My son is 8 months old and I am at the same weight I was before my pregnancy. I had borderline gestational diabetes, borderline hypothyroidism, and mild preeclampsia. I think for 4 or 5 months my feet looked like Fred Flinstone! All of this landed me with a semi-emergency c-section at 39 weeks 5 days and my son only ended up to be 5 lbs 9 oz and 19 inches. I want another child, but I don't want to go into that pregnancy being overweight and put that baby's life at risk like I did my son's.
I'll be lurking around the boards trying to find my information before I go asking questions, but if anyone has some sites with a great explination of the surgery along with before/after care, etc... please let me know! I'm also up for instant messaging if anyone would like to discuss their journy with me!