Brian66

I had my surgery 5 years ago (July 2010) and have maintained a weight loss of about 100 lbs with a re-gain of about 10-15 pounds, mostly due to poor eating habits. I have developed microcytic anemia and the doctors have not found a reason for it. Often this can be a sign of a bleed somewhere in the GI tract but I have had a number of tests (upper endoscopy, colonoscopy and MR enterography and all have come back negative. I have read some material on the internet that indicates that anemia can be a side effect of the sleeve surgery. Just wondering if anyone else out there has encountered this problem. Thanks, Brian

Sorry Jane13. My profile had a few errors - never paid too much attention to it. I was not a lap band revision. My first and only surgery was the sleeve. I think it took me about six months to lose 120 lbs.

Five years ago today, July 13, 2010, I had my vertical sleeve gastrectomy at Lenox Hill Hospital in Manhattan. At the time of my surgery, I was just hitting 300 lbs on this scale and this morning I weighed in at 198 lbs. That is up about 25 pounds or so from my all time low of about 173 lbs, but that was probably a little too thin for me. I would like to get back to my original goal weight of 180 lbs and I am working on it. Am I glad I had this surgery? Absolutely, without question. Have there been challenges? Absolutely. Even after five years, I still miss being able to sit down and enjoy a nice, juicy cheeseburger and fries or a club sandwich, but, as I always say, not being able to control myself with foods like that is what got me into trouble in the first place. However, despite all of those challenges, I know that I would never have been able to lose over 100 lbs without the help of this tool. My health has improved. I no longer take blood pressure medication and my lower back and knee pain has all but disappeared. I have developed anemia which my doctor feels may be a side effect of my surgery, but that is being treated with Iron supplements and I see it as a relatively small price to pay. My personal life has improved too. After being widowed with three young children in 2007, I met a wonderful woman a few months after my surgery in 2010 and we were married in 2013. Truth be told, my eating habits are not the best, and that is something I am taking a cold, hard look at these days. I will be 50 years old next June and I intend to be back to my goal weight of 180 by then. It is time to stop kidding myself about my sugar addiction and other bad behaviors and get my act together. If anyone reading this post is on the fence about having the surgery, my advise is to do it. I don't have any regrets at all. Brian

Gail: Welcome and good luck to you. I was sleeved just over 2 years ago, in July 2010, and I have maintained my weight loss of just over one hundred pounds. Without a doubt, the decision to have this surgery was one of the best things I have ever done for myself and my family. All the best to you, Brian

I still consider myself a success story. I had my surgery two years ago (7/13/2010) and I have maintained a weight loss of about 120 pounds. I look and feel better than I have in my entire adult life. I am writing today because I want to keep it a success story while I still can. Here's the thing. I went to my surgeon for a check up yesterday and his first words were, "OK, now it's your be careful time." I gained 2 pounds since my check-up last year. His concern is that once the weight loss stops, your body re-sets itself to a new equilibrium and it is easy to re-gain weight. Am I surprised that I gained weight? Hell no. I am surprised that I didn't gain more. For a long time time, I've been cheating like hell in what I have been eating - Cookies, candy, chips, pretzels, etc. -- all the stuff I have always loved. Why did I do it? Because I could, that's why. I have been able to eat those things, albeit in smaller portions than I used to, and I have felt some joy and excitement because I have felt like I was getting away with something. I wasn't eating because I was hungry, I was eating because I felt like it was a challenge to see what I could eat. How messed up is that? I either kept losing weight or didn't gain anything, so it really did feel like I getting something over on someone (Who? Beats me.) My first thought when I saw the gain of 2 lbs was, "No big deal, what's 2 lbs when I have lost 118?" But then I started to think, every bit of weight I ever put on came in 1 or 2 pound increments and it really started to scar the cr*p out of me. I will not go down that road again. I have come too far and gone through too much to allow myself to do that to myself again. One of the main reasons I had this surgery is that I felt that even if I could lose weight with diet and exercise (highly unlikely), I just could not go through all that hard work just to have it come back. Even knowing that, I have continued to sabotage myself. Man, the power that food has in my life is really amazing. Anyway. I am writing probably more for myself than for others. I needed to admit these things and to make myself accountable so that I don't screw up one of the best decisions I have ever made. Just wanted to put this out there and to remind everyone -- "Let's be careful out there." Thanks for listening. Brian

Two years out and I have no regrets at all. There are days when I miss eating what I used to eat, but that is how I got into trouble in the first place. It truly has been one of the best decisions I have ever made.

Isn't that the greatest feeling in the world? I love to see the puzzled look on people's faces when they realize that they should know me but just can't place the face. It has been a lot of fun!

For me it was hittting 300 pounds and a number of other factors. I had gained about 30 pounds following the death of my wife and those 30 pounds felt more like 100 in terms of the impact they had on the way I felt. I was 44 years old and I felt like I was 90! My back hurt, my knees hurt, I had sleep apnea, high blood pressure, high cholesterol and other problems. More importantly than the way I felt and looked, I realized that as the only living parent that my kids had, I needed to take care of this weight issue once and for all. I really struggled with the fact that some would view this as "the easy way out," (I still struggle with that issue a bit), but I knew that even if I could lose the weight with diet and exercise (highly doubtful), there is no way that I could spend a year or two doing that only to have it come back. As I have said many times on these boards, the decision to have the VSG was one of the best decisions I ever made for my family and for me! Brian

I agree with Supersweetums. I do get hungry occasionally, but it is not the same feeling that I used to have. Sometimes, in fact, I don't feel the hunger at all and I don't realize that it has been a long time since I have eaten until I start to get a bit of a headache. The best way I can describe the hunger feeling that I do get sometimes is that it is a much "smaller" hunger than I used to have. I like to think that it goes along with the smaller stomach, but maybe that is just psychological. I do find that on the rare occasions when I do get hungry that I have to be careful not to overeat becasue the results are sometimes not so pleasant! All in all, even with the struggles I have experienced, the decision to have the sleeve was one of the best decisions I have ever made. Brian

I had my VSG just a little over two years ago (7/13/2010) and I consider myself a success story -- I have maintained a weight loss of about 120 pounds. I do find that I am still struggling with some head hunger issues. Last night, I took my kids to dinner at a restaurant that specializes in thin crust coal oven baked pizza. It was deliciious. I had one slice and I was absolutely full and knew that if I ate more, I would have trouble and could perhaps get sick. Even though I enjoyed it and was full, I really wanted that second slice and felt cheated because I couldn't have it. Fortunately, I got up from the table to use the restroom which gave me a little time to think of things. If I was full from the first slice and not hungry, why did I want that second slice so badly? The whole experience gave me a little insight into my relationship with food and how things got out of control in terms of my weight. I also need to realize that I should order only what I can eat comfortably, not what I want to eat. Just the other night, I ordered two tacos for dinner on the way home from work. The first one was great and would have been just enough. Fortunately, as I started to eat the second one, I realized that it would make me feel too full and could possibly make me sick. I promptly spit out what was in my mouth and threw it all out. I felt pretty powerful at that moment. This has not been an easy journey, but it sure has been interesting. Brian

I had my surgery on July 13, 2010 and it truly was one of the best decisions I have ever made. It was not an easy one for me to make. I was a widowed dad of three young kids - ages 15, 10 and 9 at the time - and I was really worried about the risks of having the surgery. Ultimately, I came to realize that the staying fat was a far greater risk to my health and put my kids at a much greater risk of being orphaned. IN the end, I did it for them as much as I did it for myself. Today, two years later, I have lost 120 pounds and have maintained that weight loss pretty consistently (I fluctuate within a 2-3 pound range). In the past two years, I have gone from: a size 54 suit to a 44 regular 18 1/2 or 19 inch neck to a 16 XXL Shirt to a M Size 44 pants to a 34. I no longer need mediciation for high blood pressure or high cholesterol and I no longer need my c-pap machine for sleep apnea. My back and knee pain have also all but vanished. Most importantly, I am engaged to a wonderful woman and we plan to get married next summer. I met her just a few months after my surgery and she has been very supportive. So, I am here to tell all of you who are considering this surgery to do your homework, find a practice where you feel supported and comfortable, but do not be afraid to go for it. If your experience is anything like mine, you will never regret it. All the best to you, Brian

I buried my mom on January 3rd. She got very sick very quickly and died four weeks to the day after being diagnosed with melanoma. It is still unbelievable to me how fast she went. One of the things I am happiest about is that she got to see me conquer my life long battle with weight with the assistance of an incredible tool - the sleeve. I had my surgery on July 13, 2010 and I have lost about 125 pounds since then -- from 300 pounds to 175 today. When I first told her I was going to have the surgery done, she was very nervous, but she came to trust my research and judgment and she became on of my biggest supporters. She battled her weight for much of her life, so she knew how difficult it was. She was very proud of me. I was lucky to have had her and I'll never forget her. Thanks Mom for your love and support and encouragement. Thanks for listening. Brian

Rainsong, Just wanted to take a minute to wish you well and to tell you to go with your gut as far as telling people. I was where you are in July 2010 just before I had my surgery. I was 44 at the time and a widowed father of three fairly young children. I made the decision to have the sleeve and told only my children, my mother and my brother and sister. I simply told work that I was having some elective surgery, "nothing serious, just something that needs to be taken care of." I did not want to be the topic of everyone's conversations and I think I was secretly afraid that it wouldn't work. I had my surgery on July 13 and by Labor Day I had lost about 50 or 60 pounds. People really began to notice at that point and I had to make a decision as to whether to tell people. Ultimately, I did start to tell my extended family and close friends, but I still have not told everyone at work. I just don't feel like it is everyone's business. I would caution you about one thing though. I've dealt with some guilt about "taking the easy way out," even though in my heart I know it is not the case. I see a therapist and he did help me to see that, even though I absolutely have the right to tell or not tell whoever I like, for me, keeping the surgery a secret did add to the feeling that I had something to be ashamed of. I do find that as I tell more people I do feel freer and lest burdened about "keeping my secret." Just something to keep in mind. Wishing you all the best. Brian

I had my surgery on 7/13/2010 and so far I have lost 120 pounds. This truly was one of the best things I have ever done for myself and my family. Brian