You know, I think everything we say 2 weeks before surgery should never be taken seriously because there's always so many thoughts running through our heads and that's when all the doubts set in and the realization that failure could happen. I also get banded in a week and I'm having these thoughts, too. They're inevitable. But, honestly, I wouldn't have gone through all this if my mind wasn't made up already and neither would you. I'm 22, so I understand where you're coming from about this being a huge committment. I'm also one of the ones that has been overweight my whole life. There's so much I've missed out on. So many tears have been shed. My whole life I've thought, "If only I was skinny..." But, finally, I reached the realization that I'm not going to let the weight control me anymore. I'm not going to miss out on anything else life has to offer. I've been on the pre-op diet for 7 days now and I've lost 11 lbs. That's something I never thought in a million years I could do myself. But, it happened because of the hard work I put in and it's a great feeling. It just makes me more excited to get the band and start my new life. And, soon, when the weight starts falling off you, you'll realize how much of a great decision this was despite how hard it was. Being young works to your advantage, because now you're training yourself better eating habits for when you're older when it's most important. There's a long, long life ahead of you and if you get the band and use it to your advantage, it might be a lot longer life than if you didn't get the band and change your ways.