Good Morning...just following up since I am not on here much...I have to say THANK YOU Rainsong your going to be amazing and rock the losers bench soon!!
I was just reading Brian's post and must say first my condolences to you and your family. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
I love what Brian said it is not a secret it is so freeing....If I may without going on and on about my surgery and history which lead me up to the choice of having surgery tell you and all others considering weight loss surgery. Your choices in this World are just that YOURS, nobody feels your pains, lives with your guilt, and gets the looks we have all gotten when we choose to eat ice cream or sweet treats! I started this journey 07/06/2011 at 268 pounds today I am at 190 with a goal set by my surgeon of 145 my goal was anything under 200! I guess my attitude is simply people can think and talk all they want about me, but I know for a fact that weight loss surgery is NOT the easy way out, it is quite the opposite. It is a life changing choice we all made/make for our own personal reasons. We teach people how to treat us, and are always our own worst enemy. PLEASE hold your head up and be proud of who you are and the choices you make. I do not advertise that I had weight loss surgery but if somebody says, "Wow what is your secret..." I tell them I was tired of the struggle and fight with weight I had VS! Generally they will ask about the surgery and most want to know the process and who did it! And of course the insurance battles which I had none of!
Ok I will get off my soap box...for now!