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I had my surgery on July 1 of last year. I have seen amazing results. In fact, I've lost like 85 pounds, but I am still 20-25 pounds away from my goal and I haven't seen the scale move since Christmas. Admittedly, I don't eat great. I mean, I don't eat much (because I simply can't) but I do indulge sometimes. I am a college student and I find it REALLY REALLY hard to avoid social situations where food is involved. Also, I am struggling with getting adequate exercise in. I walk to and from school and I am taking a Polynesian dance class and I sometimes trick myself into thinking this is enough exercise. It is not, though. I am afraid I have not changed my mind and I have only changed my stomach. I get full a lot faster, but I still crave bad stuff. Any advice? I want to emphasize that I am SO happy with my results, but I want to get to my goal. BC

Super cute! I am only 2.5 weeks post-op, so I am definitely not in your same position, but I started perusing the Pregnancy forum bc I so want to have kids. Thanks for sharing your story and making me feel hopeful and excited about it, rather than simply terrified. You look adorable!

Like it says, I am 1 week post op (talk about the longest week ever!). I am just paranoid that I will not do everything right. It is so overwhelming to think about all of the things I need to do (get enough Protein, Water, chew 20-30 times, don't drink during meals, etc) and keep those things up for the rest of my life. I am paranoid about the things that will go wrong. And, most of all, I am paranoid that any little thing that I may do wrong along the way (drink too much water at a time, or whatever) will eventually make my sleeve stretch and make the surgery totally pointless. I am totally the kind of person that likes to take care of things and just have them done....like checking something off of a list. Obviously, my weight is not something I can tackle and then throw the issue away...it is something I will always have to work on. But I am still worried. My dad had gastric bypass 15 years ago and he lost tons of weight but didn't maintain good habits and gained some of the weight back. I am worried that I will slowly but surely take liberties and eat a little more *here* or *there* and do the same like my dad. I can't...I just can't!!!! It absolutely terrifies me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It exhausts me to think that I will have to be so vigilant forever. FOREVER! I will take any advice, but I am interested in the info from those who have been sleeved for quite a while. Tell me it gets better...or whatever. Thanks all so much!

I have to agree with Foxbins. Though i could prob count about 4x weekly. I don't think it's anything to worry about, as long as you are getting in all of your nutrients.

Thank you SO much! That makes me feel SOOOO much better to know that even 4 months out, you are just living life normally and following your body's signals. The way you do it (like you said in your first paragraph) is exactly how I want to live. Like most naturally skinny people already live. If you have any other tips, tricks, etc, I am all ears!!

I am about 10 days post op. I am on purees right now. As would be expected, I still have a desire for food that is not so good for me. Seeing commercials, billboards all for food is really hard. Really, really, REALLY hard. I don't just want to eat bad foods, but I want to eat lots of it. LOTS! I am so sick of what feels like teaspoons of bland stuff. I want a cheeseburger, chips, whatever! I just want it so bad!!! I reckon this is head hunger, no? How did you get over it?

Thanks, so much. That makes me feel pretty good. And, with all of the promotion of this Wendy's chili, it really makes me want to get some. It's crazy that all of the things you wanted in that 2 week phase, you just don't want anymore. How can that even be true? I just never see myself turning down a cheesy slice of pizza.

I dealt with the same exact thing. I remember waking up in the recovery room and the only pain I complained about was my shoulder. I did the same things you did. Really all I can say is keep doing what you're doing and you will be fine in a couple days. I am 1 week post-op and I have no more gas pains. The first few days are the hardest....sorry if that doesn't help. Focus on the fact that you have taken a big and important step to change your life. The growing pains are worth it.

SO great!. Not exactly the same thing as you, but I got bilateral foot surgery just 9 days before my sleeve surgery. And having to take it easy post sleeve really has helped me take good care of my feet. I am on the mend, but it's all coming together. I am happy for your success. Good luck with your arms! lol

I had surgery 5 days ago. And today is my birthday. You bet I was super sad to not be able to Celebrate with food...not to mention not being able to join in the 4th of July barbeque festivities. To be honest, i was certainly feeling major regret. But, everyday does get better. And, unfortunately, I personally feel like no matter how many people warn you about how the first few days are hard, it will still be just as hard for you. It is hard at the beginning. But I also feel like almost anything that is hard is worthwhile. This is an amazing tool to get your life back. I cannot find anyone who looked back long after surgery and regrets being healthy and happy with themselves. Even though I can't celebrate with food now, I will be able to eat regular food eventually. I am glad you are on this site. There is so much support and people with answers. I hope I can be the same for you. You will be great.

I had my VSG 3 days ago (still struggling with the gas pains). My main reason for posting today is for comfort and reassurance. I am staying at home right now between semesters (I am a 23 year old college student) and my family is having a huge 4th of July celebration. It is complete with hamburgers, watermelon (MY FAVORITE!), chips, chicken, pie, soda, fries, etc...... I am dying up here upstairs waiting while the festivities take place. I know even if I wanted to eat some of it, it would not be a pretty sight. But, how do I now Celebrate things without food? Also, my birthday is Wednesday. How the heck am I supposed to celebrate without the classic night out to a restaurant? How do you now celebrate, self-soothe, reward yourself, satisfy emotions, etc WITHOUT FOOD????? I am starting to wish I had waited one week later for the VSG so that I could have enjoyed the food and celebrations instead of being bored in my room waiting for time to pass. Any advice? PS. thanks in advance for letting me vent.

I had my surgery just 2 days ago and I was discharged from the hospital yesterday. The gas pain is pretty bad. When does it start getting better? When do I physically start feeling normal? I just need some words of wisdom and comfort.