jasleeve

see, that right there is why i wouldnt want to tell many people! i can hear my distant family members saying, "oh my god, jasmin lost so much weight!" and then another person saying, "dont be fooled, she had WLS! thats the only reason!" negative things like that make me want to keep it to myself.

thats VERY... •deep •scary •true food has always been my best friend and enemy. i can be so depressed & food & a good movie will lift my spirits. whenever i am dieting & i get stressed or depressed, i jump right off my diet head first! its going to take a lot of self digging to pull thru it all.

candle warmer? GREAT IDEA!

i once lost weight thru just dieting. i went from an 18 to a 6 in 4months... after losing the weight, i was still insecure but my insecurities werent as bad. you tend to worry about less but you still worry. thats where acceptance comes into play. you have to accept where you were, where you are, how far youve come & where you are going. no body says it will be easy but it will be worth it. its like being in a relationship with a man that cheats on you. he may change & you will be happier cuz he seems to be doing right by you but if he ever comes home a hr late from work, you will always hear that little voice in your head saying hes up to his old ways. thats when you need to trust him that hes not cheating. same for weight, you need to trust yourself that youre changing and trust that youre not how you were. i hope this made some sense lol

i have an aunt who im close with but we have a love/hate relationship. shes the most negative person you could ever ever EVER meet. im definitely not going to tell her. my mom & her are sisters and are very close & my mom agreed that keeping it from her is the best move until maybe further down the line.

i pray all went well! <3

congrats on completing most of the process to getting sleeved. i am JUST starting now. ive read that in can take a few hours up to a few weeks. you can call your insurance company and ask for a status update. i will keep my fingers crossed for you. tons of good luck dust your way.

very well put!

wow! i can agree with EVERYTHING you just listed except the uncle thing. i cant wait to start my process.

would i be wrong for leaving out the fact that i had WLS?

and have you had it done already?

i had lost tons of weight before on a subway diet. went from a size 18 to a 6 in 4 months. im an attractive female and have a spicy personality (im puerto rican) and i got TONS of attention. walking down the halls of my high school, all the guys would look and i became very popular because of how many different pairs of expensive popular sneakers i wore. funny thing is, i had on the same exact sneakers 4 months prior & never got that much attention. EVER!! after about 8months of dieting, i quickly put the weight on again and gained an extra 50.

at first, my plan was to tell NO ONE except my mom. not my boyfriend (who was my boyfriend at that time), not my bestfriend, no one. well my employer too because she is the one who told me about it. i just couldnt hold in such a secret though. i think about the surgery EVERY chance i get. everytime i see someone out of shape, i wonder if they would qualify for it. i bought new clothes today because i have an event to go to thursday & i look like im pregnant with twins. im so depressed.

im glad all turned out well for you. what made you not want to tell others?

i agree, people should be very supportive but they would take it and use it to make fun, unfortunately. im 22 & we all know that young people can be very ignorant. its sad but true. i think maybe in the future after all my weight loss, id open up to ppl if they ask but i dont think id have the courage to broadcast it. i am doing a vlog (video blog) on youtube and im going to record my every single step but ive made it all private. maybe after i lose a good 50+ lbs, ill have theheart to make it public for the world to see. i know im proud of my decision & proud that im taking control of my life! i just think the stereo type for surgery is so negative & its sad.

at first, ALL 3 of the ppl who i told said, "HELL NO!!! YOU DONT NEED THAT!!! JUST DIET AND EXERCISE!" well my ex boyfriend is a fitness director (personal trainer) & is very fit & my best friend is a zumba instructor & has all these zumba certifications. i know i could diet & exercise but its a crazy long road & a billion times harder to maintain. my mom said no until i explained it to her & gave her more info. they are all excited for me now but im terrified of not being approved thru my insurance. i know i qualify but they may not cover vsg

AMAZING!!!!!

after doing much research, ive read from some people that getting their surgery only took 3 months. with others, ive read that its a 6month process. why is that? i believe my insurance is a 6month process. i have 1199SEIU. anyone else have this issue? anyone know why?

:/ im not a steroid user. im praying that they dont deny me. ive lost my gall bladder due to weight. im border line diabetic. i have thyroid issues. hormonal inbalance. pcos. fatty liver. out of breath quickly. back pain galore. im praying that they dont look at my issues as "small"

it seems like a trick! lol. i dont know tho

i actually found a surgeon already & go see a nutrionist, nurse practioner & seminar on july 5th. something else that has me wondering is, what if i lose a lot of weight during that 6months? will they deny me? i lose weight quickly but put it on twice as fast which is why i turned to vsg.

oh ok.. wow. im sorry to hear that. if you dont mind me asking, are they going to make you pay everything upfront or would they finance it for you? i read on a few sites that it can be very costly. i pray i get approved because if not, ill be devestated.

that is horrible im sorry to hear that. my insurance thankfully pays for even the after effect such as loose skin, etc. thank god for my mom!! have u possibly looked into changing insurances? u may end up paying less by signing up with another insurance than paying for the surgery out of pocket.

well the only reason i would skip over her is because my boyfriend is very into nutrition. hes a fitness director & a bodybuilder. i know someone who had vsg surgery and she was on the same exact diet pre-op that he had put me on...i lose a lot of weight but put it on just as fast which is why im turning to vsg. if its not avoidable, than i will have no choice but to pay but i rather get the info for free than pay out of pocket.

if you dont mind me asking, what type of insurance do you have? i am going to a seminar on july 5th & i scheduled an appointment with the nutrionist and nurse practioner the same day. i have 1199SEIU and after researching, its affiliated with aetna and aetna does cover the vsg (thank god)! if my insurance were not to cover it, id be trapped in this body forever. i hear its a 6month process with my surgery & if i mess up, id have to start all over. im scared lol