All of these generalizations about men and women are hooey. They are generalizations and thats it. Everyone is different. My wife is not very supportive of WLS but is less non-supportive of the lap-band. Sometimes I get the feeling that my wife dislikes me also, though I have no doubt that she loves me. I agree that the better you feel about yourself the better your relationship. I should be getting the "official" sleep apnea diagnosis on Wednesday (I had the sleep study a couple of weeks ago) to confirm my wife's "unofficial" diagnosis. I'm looking forward to making an appointment for a consultation at the local Barix Clinic. Hopefully I can be invited back into the bedroom and off the couch permanantly rather than just 2 times a week for 12 1/2 minutes at a time. If you know what I'm talking about. Hardy har har. Best of luck.
Sonny