Hi and welcome!! I also think the best thing you can do is to attend one or more support group meetings at your prospective surgeon's practice. It is a great way of seeing how others experience life after being 'sleeved'. I am only 12 days post-op, but I haven't had any problems. I have a one year old, so I can relate to your energy concerns. I can only speak as to my experience, but I was only seriously pooped for the first 2 days post op (when I was in the hospital). Once I was able to have some full liquids (for me that was day 3), I felt like a brand new woman! There is the soreness, which can be a nuisance, but it gets better with each passing day. From what I understand from my research, your stomach won't ever stretch back to it's original size, but it can stretch some, so you should do your best to 'listen to your sleeve' and stop eating when you begin to feel full. As fas as regrets-my only one so far is that I didn't do this MUCH sooner! I LOVE my sleeve!!