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My husband had his surgery over a year ago, and had lost about 50 pounds. He started out in a size 4X and was down to a lose fitting 3X. He was so happy and excited about his weight loss. But NOW, he has gained back most of the weight he loss, he eats junk food all the time, eats late and goes to sleep, won't exercise, and will not go get a fill. When I ask him about it he says he will go. I was really enjoying my new 50 pounds lighter husband. He had a great attitude, he seemed more happy, I was sooooooo attracted to him, and sorry but our sex life was so good. Does anyone have advice on how I can get my husband motivated again??

Thank you all for your response. I am not "fat" as sandworm put it, but I am overweight, and I am currently working to lose about 30 pounds. I have been eating healthier and exercising, and I encourage him to as well. Unfortunately, he won't....I got home from work today and he is laying in the bed eating pizza. He always tells me to help him lose it, and when I suggest exercising or for him to eat healthier, he pretty much ignores me. I did Zumba the other morning and asked him to join me cause it was fun, but he came in jokingly dancing, but then left. I am going to love him no matter what, but he is not at a healthy weight, and we have two toddlers, and his health at this weight scares me! I want to wish you all the best of luck in your weight loss journey!!!