I am a full-time working mother and wife who has a BMI over 51. I have been considering (have decided that I am gonna do it) the LapBand to assist in changing my life. I have done the research and I am scheduled for my first seminar in 2 days, I'm scarred and I don't know what to expect. Looking forward to talking with people who know my struggle & challenges and know what I can, should, will, and won't deal with in looking into this option.