just go with it and learn to take the compliments! that was my hardest part.... if some one loves you it wont matter what things look like, trust me it aint so pretty under my clothes either, but that doesnt stop me!! plus you can always leave the lights off... good luck!! I am also single but love it. the only way to take that next step is to just jump, take the chances and learn from them thats all you can do! I also hide my emotions with sarcasm but we all need to let our guard down sometimes... but dont hide from hot guys embrace them, literally form out of town or not!!