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I was banded in 2007, when I was 18 years old (at 132kg) . I didn't want a lapband, or really know waht it was about. Anyways my parents wanted me to have it so I did - to make them happy. Anyways of course it didnt work for me because it wasnt what I wanted. However, I'm now 22 and far more mature. Im getting back on the band wagon, re-saw my surgeon two weeks ago and got a fill (I weighed 124.4kg), and I've been pretty good since. However - I need things to keep me motivated, like little rewards. But I can't think of anything, other than food! Any suggestions on what I could reward myself with? I'm in major need of support as I have somehow dodged all the co-morbidities but I know that my luck will be up soon and I need to lose weight before it seriously impacts my health. I'm hoping that being young is on my side! Another thing is that my mum is really driving me crazy, I'm the only one with a weight issue in the family these days (My mum also had a lap band and lost a significant amout of weight) anyways.,, She will buy chocolate, or make cakes and slices or make dinners that are not suitable for someone on a diet! She said she would support me going back and getting into it, she said she'd do anything I needed to help me. But talking to her doesnt help, she says 'well you dont have to eat it'. Ahh the stress! Anyways any advice and or support would be much appreciated! I know that I can do it! Hannah

A few weeks ago I was in the same place as you Jay, I was banded in December of 2007 and I know exactly how you feel! However, I made an appointment with my surgeon and saw him last Wednesday. When I walked into his office I couldn't stop crying. He couldn't have been nicer about it! So supportive and proud of me that I had made the decision to go back. Not once did he mention 'fail' or 'fat' or 'disappointment'. He made me feel like I can do it. And this time around I've got so much more will power. He gave me a fill, and so far so good. I've eaten three small meals a day and I already have more energy. I know its hard! But if you want to do it there is support out there and available! Hope to hear some good news from your side soon Good luck!