I am 58, will be banded hopefully around lat Oct or Nov, 2011 and live alone- to work and home. My family lives about 1 hr away and moving even further in a few months. They really live their own lives, I am having a hard time finding someone my age, to buddy up with. I go to the support groups and mostly the gals are much younger or married- anyhow, not open to being anyones buddy. I actually expected more people my age, now free to take care of self, to be there! Anyhow, I eat our of boredom, I do well at work , and when out and about, but after 6 PM , my hour of darkness begins. Anyone out there with same issues?